salem mark Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 My ex dumped me last Friday, i treated her great by the way, I was shocked , it really hurt, the things she said, even brought the dog into it. she has been initiating contact almost everyday, I have been responding. Heh, I loved her OK I have not been initiating contact, she is, hoping she would apologize and say she didnt mean itand made a big mistake, she hasn't. today, ive received 2 emails, a text, and 3 phone calls she's checking in to make sure everythings allright, what? everythings great after the heart stomping you gave me last friday Should I reply to this?
Author salem mark Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 this is her voicemail I just received. "Hi how are you, just me checkin in making sure everything's all right, give me a call back bye"
Heartford Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 You don't have to do anything. She broke up with you. She's probably trying to reduce her own feelings of guilt by contacting you so much, but really, she's lost that right since she is choosing not to be with you anymore. More importantly, her contacting you is not allowing you to move on. You need to focus on yourself, wholly and fully. So, cutting off contact is the wisest thing to do in your situation. You can either just ignore her and wait for her to catch on, or you can send one final text, saying that you feel it's best the two of you not remain in contact since you are now broken up, and that you won't be responding to her anymore. I know it's difficult, but it's important for your own healing.
Lamak Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Ignore her attempts to contact you. She's just playing games.
Author salem mark Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 why not let here sweat it out a little, i deserve it I hate playing games, I mentioned this to an elderly man, He said " Son, the games never end"
JaggedRoad Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Unless you press the On/Off button on the console.
Thebob Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 end that ****, she broke up with you, the end..... Show her who the man is and make her shove her computer and phone up herself. She broke up with you, she doesn't deserve anything from you. The end. Thebob
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