Johnstamos77 Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 This is my first time posting and hope I could get some advice after reading other people's post. Anyways I dated my gf for over 2 years and it was always an on and off relationship, but we always end up working it out. We broke up over a month ago for a good 4 weeks. Since then I was seeing another girl. I ended my relationship with that new the girl and decided to get back with my gf after a month. Things were going good between us, then i told her I was seeing another girl while we were broken up. She tried to tell me to give her time alone because she couldnt get over the fact that I was with someone else. I didnt listen and just wanted to stay with her to show her how much I loved her. That It was nothing big between me and the last girl. It was going good again, she would always tell me she misses me, loves me so much and I make her happy. 2 weeks ago she calls me and tells me she really needed time alone to get over it. I was more than happy to give it to her. 1 week later I messaged her to tell her I miss her. She tells me its over but at the same time she said she misses me too and she still cares about me. She also mentions its only been a week. She wanted to know what really happened between me and the other girl and I told her just enough. Yesterday, I got irritated about a certain situation so I texted her a message and It was about a guy she met who is trying to hook up with her. I had to get it off my chest, but she replies to me that she is does not like him and that she is with someone else now who makes her happy. She tells me he is alot older and more mature. I was devasted when I read that text but I replied, I am happy that she's happy and that I miss her still. A girlfriend of mine told me that that message she wrote is almost a possibility of a lie and that she is really trying to make me jealous. I almost agreed since she has pulled something similar to that to me. I know that she is really angry about the whole " i was with someone else", and that its possible she could be with a new person to get over me. Im just so confused because for a while we were so good together. We would talk about how we would probably end up together always, and our strong feelings for each other. The fact I also saw her almost everyday. Then one day just like that she changes her mind and tells me she really need time for herself to get over it. We also talked about in between how we would have a big break up one day in order to be together forever. This gives me some hope. I dont know what to do but just leave her alone. We never talked in person about the problem. It's basically left unclosed. I cant possibly think about me being honest with her would lead me to be permanently seperated form her. I did my part and I hope she gets over it. I dont know if that text message was meant to get me jealous or she was serious about it. Was wondering what is best for my scenerio? If I should just let it be or there is a good chance she will come back to me. Its only been 2 weeks but im so torn apart that she could possibly be with someone else. If i wasnt honest with her I wouldnt have this problem and we would be together for sure. Just breaks my heart of all things we went through and positive things we talked about gone to waste. I miss her so much and I know its best to just leave her alone. When we were apart she would always constantly call me to try work things. This is the first time I really felt apart from her.
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