joel Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 do you guys find dating and meeting girls to be very time consuming and effort and at the end you might not even get long term partner or even gf. so what happens. you have to find another girl and start from scratch. your not even sure if the next girl you ask out or meet will even work out. it might just last for 3 dates or might last more till you find out shes was seeing another guy ontop of you. who nows i went out with this girl for 3 dates. first time we met was at bus stop and she seems talktive and friendly so i got her email and we met up for coffee and walk in park, after the 3rd time hanging out i notice shes not as writing as much on her emails-very brief and msn shes doesn't reply back or very late. when it comes to the weekend and hanging out -she puts her friends as priority and if nothing is going with her friends then she hangs out with me what can i do. start again and find another one and start all over again don't you guys find it frustrating,. having to meet girls and find girls not nowing if its going to last and you might be just wasting your time -for what nothing. hehe i am new to the dating game, hehe late bloomer. thats just what i'm thinking
BG1985 Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 If it were easy, everyone would be in a relationship.
Johnny M Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Don't take dating too seriously and never date just one girl at a time until you agree to become exclusive. That way, if things don't work out, you'll always have at least one backup. Don't think of dating as a search for "the one" - treat as a past time activity.
boogieboy Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Youre only frustrated because you dont realize what youre doing wrong.
Allthatsloveleigh Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 The vast majority of relationships are destined to fail at some point. Think about it.
627 Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 The vast majority of relationships are destined to fail at some point. Think about it. nothing is meant to last forever, but it is good while it lasts yes it is frustrating, and all these mind games and tricks, dating is like a career of its own, it takes skills and experience and good shape and luck the odds of you liking someone and that someone liking you back... if only things can be more straightforward
Author joel Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 Youre only frustrated because you dont realize what youre doing wrong. what can i be doing wrong
bluestraps Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Don't take dating too seriously and never date just one girl at a time until you agree to become exclusive. That way, if things don't work out, you'll always have at least one backup. Don't think of dating as a search for "the one" - treat as a past time activity. <p>This is good advice</P> <p>At first I thought a dating site would be good but I find that im not attracted to any one I see. and so many women in my age range have kids already ,but maybe try it anyway </p> <p>I am so afraid that my next love will be not very attractive or maybe ill settle because I dont want to go thru another break up</P> <p>My 10 year relationship just ended last month . My girfriend dumped me for a close friend. I have no idea what i'm going to do. Every woman I meet from now on is going to be compared to her. This should make dating fun !!</p> <p>I think finding a good relationship is like an airplane crashing . you know it does'nt happen very often but eventualy one will crash. </p>
bluestraps Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 This is good advice At first I thought a dating site would be good but I find that im not attracted to any one I see. and so many women in my age range have kids already ,but maybe try it anyway I am so afraid that my next love will be not very attractive or maybe ill settle because I dont want to go thru another break up My 10 year relationship just ended last month . My girfriend dumped me for a close friend. I have no idea what i'm going to do. Every woman I meet from now on is going to be compared to her. This should make dating fun !! I think finding a good relationship is like an airplane crashing . you know it does'nt happen very often but eventualy one will crash.
gypsy_nicky Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 no. I learn something about me the more I see people. You can usually catch yourself engaging in behaviors that may be off putting to other people or that draw people in. Then again if you meet someone that's really spiteful or someone you find that's perfect for you, but they don't think otherwise then yeah it sucks for the moment.
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