Timtom Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 This is a question mainly for the women but guys are also welcome. I'm confident in my personality and don't care to change myself, but (there's always a but isn't there?) I've never really had women flirt back with me. I don't aim impressively high above my looks, in fact many of my friends agree that I'm not that picky at all when it comes to looks so I just don't understand it. They're fine with being friends but when it comes to dating I get friendzoned quicker than anything. This has caused me to question if its because of how I look. This is me: http://s578.photobucket.com/albums/ss221/timtomdrum/?action=view¤t=extra.jpg I have graduated from college and have my own place. I also value personality over looks. My job is respectable working as a librarian so I'm not some poor homeless man. I also do try to take pride in keeping myself groomed. So women would you give me a chance without knowing that other stuff? Or am I just not that good looking enough?
Author Timtom Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 Wow no responses? I always though looks didn't matter that much to women guess I was wrong. Here I was hoping personality was worth something.
betamanlet Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 This is a question mainly for the women but guys are also welcome. I'm confident in my personality and don't care to change myself, but (there's always a but isn't there?) I've never really had women flirt back with me. I don't aim impressively high above my looks, in fact many of my friends agree that I'm not that picky at all when it comes to looks so I just don't understand it. They're fine with being friends but when it comes to dating I get friendzoned quicker than anything. This has caused me to question if its because of how I look. This is me: http://s578.photobucket.com/albums/ss221/timtomdrum/?action=view¤t=extra.jpg I have graduated from college and have my own place. I also value personality over looks. My job is respectable working as a librarian so I'm not some poor homeless man. I also do try to take pride in keeping myself groomed. So women would you give me a chance without knowing that other stuff? Or am I just not that good looking enough? I know butt ugly guys who get women because they are very direct, outgoing, and confident. I'm straight, so I cannot tell what exactly is good looking, but you look a little bizarre, but you look like what people in England look like. In fact, you kind of look like that English actor from Enterprise, Dominic something.. Forget his name. Lots of english people look like that. Your personality has more to do with it, so be more aggressive, more sexually aggressive, and speak your mind.
amirpc Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 This is a question mainly for the women but guys are also welcome. I'm confident in my personality and don't care to change myself, but (there's always a but isn't there?) I've never really had women flirt back with me. I don't aim impressively high above my looks, in fact many of my friends agree that I'm not that picky at all when it comes to looks so I just don't understand it. They're fine with being friends but when it comes to dating I get friendzoned quicker than anything. This has caused me to question if its because of how I look. This is me: http://s578.photobucket.com/albums/ss221/timtomdrum/?action=view¤t=extra.jpg I have graduated from college and have my own place. I also value personality over looks. My job is respectable working as a librarian so I'm not some poor homeless man. I also do try to take pride in keeping myself groomed. So women would you give me a chance without knowing that other stuff? Or am I just not that good looking enough? How old are you dude? That picture makes you look like, 17. I will tell you that I was butt ugly most of my life and then as I started to get into my mid 20s, learned to dress, it started to not matter. Innate physical beauty is truthfully not as important for men, but you need to dress well, carry yourself well, and be confident.
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