mzLoveLy Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Ok I'm going to write this as clear & 2 da point..excuse my bluntness its just I want to blurt it all out........ I got 2 da gym and I have a personal trainer..@ first it was business,I went workout and I ws out......oky ...da lst 3 sessions. Have been..fun...lol...fun in the sense that he started asking me questions aabout me,my likes in music and movies, we've laughed and shared stories...I thought this was cool nothing out of the ordinary...next session......he gets happy 2 c me, we do the workouts, he makes fun of me,mimics me,dances even he said he was having too much fun..I told him its not fair cuz I was suffering wit all these butt exercises he said something but I didn't understand all I saw him do was hand gestures of. Round ass and him enjoying it...so I left it @ that.next session...same as the others he seemed really happy 2 c me nd likewise so I exercised nd he mentioned he REALLY liked d new mariah carey song " I want 2 know what love is" and he kept emphasizing the fact he liked it so I took it s 4 me 2 hear da song..which I did..this is where the curiosity sparked... So the next session I c him waiting 4 me at the entrance which he never has done,so we trined nd more questions about me everything hs been the same...I asked him about and exercise I was doing and again he had 2 talk about the butt in a ..lol..not vulgr but "fresh" 2 sum way...the lady next 2 us was exercising and I guess she felt uncomfy and left we both crcked up..that's it 4 da stories..now here's sum extras..he laughs ll daa time @ wat I say, he seems sumtimes nervous,he touches here and there not innapropriatly but soft touches,he's actually gone into detail about what I was wearing and askin questions,I've let him down many times but he never says no,picking. Strand of hair off my shirt while I was exercising,he's ctually been working out after our session @ da gym recently suin he didn't do b4....ok I'm done lol...long ass story dats why I wnted 2 le t it all out but I dk if he's interested or just extra friendly wit me cuz we get along well...so wat do u think? I really waann know and I feel frustrted cuz I don't wanna ask him due 2 our business relation but I wanna know!!! Plz help! Sry 4 all da grammatical errors and spelling errors but I'm on my phone nd the keys sumtimes mess up
whattodoooo Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 from all that you said there is no way that he is not interested in you. if i were u id wait to see if he will ask you out but if not then you should flirt a little more with him and maybe after one of your sessions ask him if he would like to hang out with you and maybe go get a drink or something, he is definately into you
Author mzLoveLy Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 (edited) i still feel a lil shy about the whole asking him out thing...my daughter is going to be 3 on saturday and i want to, so badly, to ask him to come but i dont want to seem pushy ..cuz to an extent i am liking all this extra attention...what girl wouldn't? i dont want to have crossed signals and for him to be all up tight with me for the rest of the sessions...until august of 2010..lol.....but yes i will go to a few more sessions with an open mind..flirt a lil bit..but i feel like i shouldnt make it obvious...IDK..i feel like a school girl ...wat do ya think? Edited October 29, 2009 by mzLoveLy
whattodoooo Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 well yeaa thats true you dont want to seem desperate just flirt back a little but flirt enough still to where he knows that your interested, u dont wanna cut back too much or he might think you arent into him, so it is good to show him you have interest in him
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