nicolas465 Posted December 7, 2003 Posted December 7, 2003 hi all, I seem to have a little problem, see i haven't seen my gf for a few weeks now, about 4, mainly because it's finals right now and i just don't have time to study and see her. Lately I've noticed that she has become increasingly er..... rude/edgy on the phone. She often snapps at me, the otherday i went to bed early because i was sick and did not get a chance to talk to her. when we did talk on the phone the next day i said "hey did u call last nite" she said "yep" and i said, "oh... my sister didnt' tell me" and then she got mad and was like " well i did!! ". Also i've noticed that lately she's been telling me a lot these stories of her flirting w/other guys at school. She claims that she's edgy because she "misses" me... but i'm afraid i might be loosing her... any idea's on what's going on , besides for PMS?
Goatsbreath Posted December 7, 2003 Posted December 7, 2003 Well, any realationship that goes on nurished is going to fail. I mean 4 weeks man, thats not putting a whole lot of effort into the realationship. Now, it may be true about the flirting or this may just be her making up storys about other guys flirting so you will wake up. I think it is obvious that she is feeling a lack of devotion on your part. Dont just tell her you realize you have been negleting the realationship, you better do something really good about it and then keep feeding the bond. You can't just expect things to be ok if your not trying.
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