Have you ever broken NC with your Ex?

[LovelyDaze]

There are times that I want to call my ex but something inside me nags at me on how "well" that ended up.

 

Has anyone ever broken their vow of NC after a bad break up and if so, how did it work out?

[McGrupp]

um search all my posts from the last 2 days.

[NoneoftheAbove]

Don't do it. I have broken NC before i signed up for LS, i would cry, send text messages, and send emails to her. Nothing has changed since than same old story, the person you are contacting with will say things that would patch your wounds for a while. If that person is truly wants to work things out no matter what the person who loves you will contact you in any way. There is nothing there that can stop them from doing it so. Hang in there its not the end of the world, its hard but you are going to get there.

[JaggedRoad]

I broke NC about 6 times since the break-up. All gave momentary relief, but there was no point to breaking NC seeing as how my ex refused to discuss the relationship.

[LovelyDaze]

Thanks all...I need to make sure I am doing the right thing here. I am SO tempted at times and others I feel like just forgetting he ever existed.

 

 

To McGrupp: WHOA.....you were right.

[LucreziaBorgia]

I just did a day or so ago. We are still exchanging emails. As much as I want to walk away, it does not appear that either of us can. Nothing good will come of it. I wish I had kept up the NC, but I'm in that purgatory now of liking the contact more than I do the idea of moving on.

[GoneButNotForgotten]

Most of us have done it at one time or another. I think the last time for me was a couple months ago. But even 10 months later, I still feel that twinge on occasion. I've learned my lessons from previous times. It doesn't do anything helpful. It is hard and it sucks, but as time goes on it really isn't a focal point after a period of time.