skylarblue Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Do you think the saying that “In every relationship, one person always loves the other one more” is true?
Fallen Angel Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Do you think the saying that “In every relationship, one person always loves the other one more” is true? I certainly hope not.. I really would like to believe that someday I will find that perfect one, and he will love me every bit as much as I love him... (now I just have to figure out how to get over the one who didn't love me half as much)
armywife915 Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 I firmly believe that. I am not saying the person who loves less does not love the other enough. But, I definitely think that one person always loves the other a little more.
CarrieT Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Do you think the saying that “In every relationship, one person always loves the other one more” is true? This is working under the assumption that love is a quantifiable, measurable substance, -- so -- no, how could it be determined?
Lizzie60 Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Do you think the saying that “In every relationship, one person always loves the other one more” is true? Yes.. I'm absolutely positive that, after a while, one person loves the other more.. not at the beginning though.. I think that during 'lust' time.. both are pretty much equal.. It can't be otherwise.. there is no way that the love can remain absolutely equal .. equal... no way... it's humanly impossible IMO.
NowhereToHide Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Do you think the saying that “In every relationship, one person always loves the other one more” is true? Yes, I do believe this. And I also believe the rest of the saying which is that the one that loves the other one less holds the power. Story of my life, unfortunately.
mem11363 Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Agree with Lizzie. Once you get past the first 12/24 months of new love someone has at least a bit less love/and consequently more power. My wife loves me a bit less, and yes she has more power. The key to the whole deal is a little bit of difference is fine. A LOT of difference quickly becomes a disaster. Remember when dating - that emotional claustrophobia thing you get for someone clingy/needy when you are not into them very much. And my observation is that in 80/90 percent of long term relationships the woman becomes dominant. So the real question is how does the weaker partner make it work so that it works. The one thing I avoid is crowding her in any way. The worst thing the more loving spouse can do is to cling/crowd - because it completely screws up the delicate and perfect ecosystem of one person loving the other a LITTLE more. And I make sure to travel just a little for work. More then she wants me to. Just a little more. I have always done that. It works like a charm. If she didn't really miss me, then I travelled more and more until she was saying - hey I really wish you were here more. Yes, I do believe this. And I also believe the rest of the saying which is that the one that loves the other one less holds the power. Story of my life, unfortunately.
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