RogueAngel19 Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 I have been trying to make a new friend with a girl that's technically in two of my classes and we've hung out twice but her major keeps her busy sometimes and I understand that. Lately I haven't heard anything from her since a week or two before our fall break and now I am back and nothing. I gave her my cell since we mostly talked through e-mail which was getting to be kinda slow if one of us had a change in schedules. She hasn't responded back or called since the last e-mail i sent with my cell. Every time we hangout she's nice and excited to talk to me and she says she enjoys it and that we should hangout more often. I just wonder if I am doing something wrong or am I missing something?
Awesome Username Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 I have been trying to make a new friend with a girl that's technically in two of my classes and we've hung out twice but her major keeps her busy sometimes and I understand that. Lately I haven't heard anything from her since a week or two before our fall break and now I am back and nothing. I gave her my cell since we mostly talked through e-mail which was getting to be kinda slow if one of us had a change in schedules. She hasn't responded back or called since the last e-mail i sent with my cell. Every time we hangout she's nice and excited to talk to me and she says she enjoys it and that we should hangout more often. I just wonder if I am doing something wrong or am I missing something? Honestly, I think she might just be busy. Give her time, and a bit of advice: If you sound too disappointed or moody if she says no then she wont want to hang out.
Author RogueAngel19 Posted October 29, 2009 Author Posted October 29, 2009 Thanks I think you're right. I'll wait.
Peaceful Guy Posted October 29, 2009 Posted October 29, 2009 Honestly, I think she might just be busy. i agree, don't take this personally. Give her time, and a bit of advice: If you sound too disappointed or moody if she says no then she wont want to hang out. again, this is true, but i want to add something. it's not just about her. no need to ever be angry or anything like that, but just because she has a valid reason for not responding to your calls or messages, doesn't mean you have to like it. ive dealt with this personally.. here's how i look at it/make it work for me. when i call or message someone, the "ball is in their court." no need to worry about it after that. being disappointed is cool/okay, and is a genuine testament to how great you think they are.. but in the meantime, find some other people to chill with.
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