KSSDallas Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 So...my initial situation is documented on another thread on here. I'm basically in relationship purgatory. I really don't know what's going on. My bf/exbf (I don't know which) has completely pulled away from our relationship. He's confused, and cold to the relationship. This is a guy who told me at 2 months that he loves me, and has shown that throughout our relationship (8 months before this started). His criticisms of me and our relationship are very vague and he won't or can't elaborate. I feel like he's given up. This is frustrating because we had agreed to fight for our relationship. Well...now's the time you fight...but how do you fight sudden apathy? I'm in so much pain. I realy love him. Last week he was so ready to break up with me and wanted to meet me 'for a few minutes' presumably to do so...then he postponed it til the weekend 'maybe sunday' he said. Then he sent some really friendly texts. Sunday came and went and I didn't hear from him. My phone will arbitrarily decided it doesn't have enough memory and start blocking texts until I turn the phone off and back on. In the middle of the day on Sunday this happened. So, Monday...just to be sure...I texted him to see if he had tried to contact me 'since we'd talked about it'. He texted me back and all he said was 'No. I didn't.' That's the last communication we've had. I feel paralyzed. I can't decide if I should contact him or not. Any thoughts???
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