Lailaxx Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Okay, cut a long story short. Worked with a guy a few years ago, hooked up one night (no sex) then I went a bit cold. Stayed friends, saw other people. I moved away lost contact for 2 years - hooked up and had sex a few months ago, I live in a different state. I texted him he'd reply, I laid off thinking he wasn't interested. He then lost his phone emailed for number, hooked up again a couple of weeks ago (both times we hooked up we've been sober and during the day!). He texted the next day, i texted a couple of times, he replied staright away. Decided to wait for him to contact me, how to go from friend / booty call to something more, or has that ship sailed??
betamanlet Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Okay, cut a long story short. Worked with a guy a few years ago, hooked up one night (no sex) then I went a bit cold. Stayed friends, saw other people. I moved away lost contact for 2 years - hooked up and had sex a few months ago, I live in a different state. I texted him he'd reply, I laid off thinking he wasn't interested. He then lost his phone emailed for number, hooked up again a couple of weeks ago (both times we hooked up we've been sober and during the day!). He texted the next day, i texted a couple of times, he replied staright away. Decided to wait for him to contact me, how to go from friend / booty call to something more, or has that ship sailed?? That ship sank right after it was christened, it didn't just sail away. how about you go for guys who actually are interested in more than just sex with you?
back2gether Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Why not just ask him if he is interested in dating? You never know, maybe he thinks you are the one looking for the bed buddy.
ADF Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 how to go from friend / booty call to something more, or has that ship sailed?? I suspect that ship may have sailed. Once you've agreed--either through words or actions--to some kind of FWB/booty call arrangement, most guys will never want to make it something more. For many guys, FWB is the ultimate win-win situation. They get sex with a woman they like, but don't have to shoulder the responsibilities of a real relationhip. Most guys will just end the relationship rather than give that up.
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