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nothing hurts more then ur ex being with another girl 1 week after ur break up


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Me and my boyfriend of 4 years broke up last week he lied to my and when I found out HE broke up with ME. He told me he was just going to a bar with his friend but he really went to a party of this slutty girl who always trys to hook up with him.. well now he acts like I'm an evil bitch n I was never nothing but good to him n now he's with another girl. It kills me that my feelings don't meen **** its like I'm not even a person. I haven't contacted him since the break up.

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Me and my boyfriend of 4 years broke up last week he lied to my and when I found out HE broke up with ME. He told me he was just going to a bar with his friend but he really went to a party of this slutty girl who always trys to hook up with him.. well now he acts like I'm an evil bitch n I was never nothing but good to him n now he's with another girl. It kills me that my feelings don't meen **** its like I'm not even a person. I haven't contacted him since the break up.

 

Keep up with not contacting him. Don't answer if he calls you also. I'm sure this must really hurt and I'm sorry for your pain. You've just seen some insight into the person your ex is, keep that in mind.

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Betrayal like that is a terrible feeling.

 

My ex is dating the girl I accused him of cheating on me with that he said didn't even exist. I saw a text message he was writing to his brother about some 22 year old girl. He swore it was a joke and there is no 22 year old girl, 2 months after we break up he’s in a relationship with her and now a few months later they moved in together.

 

Keep your chin up and every time you start missing the bastard remember what a jerk he is to do that to you and dismiss your feelings that way. Do not under any circumstances contact him.

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Ummm, I could think of something that hurts more.

 

Someone who has secretly been cheating on you, which is probably what he was doing.

 

I suspect he's a young guy having an active sex relationship with you?

 

He would not leave until he secured his next piece.

 

I don't mean to bring any pain to your attention.

But, I would bet the farm that he's been cheating WHILE you were dating,,,,which of course hurts more.

 

The sooner you recover, the better off you will be.

Consider councelling to help rebuild your self esteem.

 

With a healthy self esteem, you will not accept disrespect.

You will also become more desirable to men of a better caliber.

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REBOUND! he will be back. not giving false hope or even saying you should go back, but i know this all too well. DO NOT CALL HIM, DO NOT PICK UP!! I promise you, promise promise promise IT's the BEST thing you can do. PLEASE TRUST ME

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Me and my boyfriend of 4 years broke up last week he lied to my and when I found out HE broke up with ME. He told me he was just going to a bar with his friend but he really went to a party of this slutty girl who always trys to hook up with him.. well now he acts like I'm an evil bitch n I was never nothing but good to him n now he's with another girl. It kills me that my feelings don't meen **** its like I'm not even a person. I haven't contacted him since the break up.

 

Not that you should actually do this, but I would LOVE if you started dating one of his friends.

 

Boy what a twist that would put on this story! :)

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i know how you feel, my ex cheated on me and got married with the guy in less than 4 months. and while she was cheating, she told lots of lies.

 

well, my advice to you is to have totally no communication with him at all and move on with your life. i think you're a much better person without him.

 

and may i say, good riddance!

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I know it hurts but you really don't need someone like that around! He's not truly appreciating you anymore.

 

I used to go out with a jerk like your ex. He broke up with me as well and quickly went onto partying with girls WHILE talking to old ex girlfriends. He's apparently getting married to one of his ex girlfriends now. I was just like you, who was nothing but good to him. In fact, I was the one who knew things that he would never tell other girls. He acts like I'm the devil or something. Totally deleted/blocked me off of everything. Now what is he doing and what am I doing? He's a jobless loser trying to get married... with a gold-digging girl. Me? Living single and happy!

 

There is someone out there that will appreciate you! Forget about this guy!

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