!!!My Great relationship with my dream girl, i got really nervous around her???

[stanlovesJ]

Ok, so we are both sophmores in high school now.Most of this happened freshman year.

 

So i went out with this girl last year and at first, things were going smoothly but then i started acting really dumb like coming drunk ,and high to school (last year that was , freshman year). i would kind of overreact to get attention but it didn't work out.

Things didn't really change, we had a pretty good sexual and personal relationship, but i don't know what she really thought about me. Sometimes i would say some really dumb stuff like for example (the sky is blue well duh). I am not really good with girls. i was really nervous around her so i would usually get a little drunk before talking to her.The alcohol would make me do some dumb stuff sometimes, but it also helped with my depressed state.

I am so happy she went out with me though. She is more like the hot popular, preppy type , but i stand out from everyone else, play some sports sometimes social, sometimes really strange.

 

we hung a decent amount, and i would do some crazy things with her, for fun, like going to friend parties, or we would just go to fun places and chill. we were never serious in our relationship. i wish we got there though.

 

She is a really nice girl, reallly pretty, sporty type (my type overall)! So yeah, I'm not sure how i should approach her now because i dont know what her opinion is of me. We stopped talking though because i had a lot of things going on and i didnt really have time for her.

Now when i see her i get nervous and scared to talk to her. its like im avoiding her but i cant help it.

 

how do i approach her now?

Edited October 28, 2009 by stanlovesJ
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[whattodoooo]

well first off u said that you would get drunk and say and do stupid things, maybe she doesnt know if you are really serious about her because from your writing it doesnt seem like you did anything to show her.. you should go up to her and just ask her if you can talk to her for a minute and pull her aside from her friends so u two can have a private conversation, you should apologize for not talking to her because of the things going on in your life at the time and tell her that u want to hang out with her again and that u enjoyed the other times u guys hung out together then if u guys start hanging out again and build your relationship up ask her how she feels about you and tell her how you feel about her, you will never know if you dont ask and she will never know if you dont tell her