abodekobe Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Hey all. I recently went to a dance party with a group of friends and a girl I've been crushing on for awhile. We (the girl and I) never really were friends, just acquaintances of each other. I heard from friends that she is currently in a long-distance (out of country, does it matter?) relationship... which was a fact I did not really think about when we got drinks and proceeded to grind each other most of the night. So, I have things I'd like to get some advice on from the LS community. 1) Was it wrong of me, despite being somewhat inebriated, to act out on my attraction to this girl? I don't know her bf, but I do know that if I were him, I'd be pretty upset. 2) What does it say about the girl if she goes out to party and grinds guys she just met (even if we knew of each other from mutual friends, etc)? Does it mean she's just lonely and missing the physical connection from her bf? Could it mean she's attracted to me and just really flirtatious in general? Is she relationship material? Thanks all!
BG1985 Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Did you not answer your own question from your post? I personally don't think you're in the wrong for any grinding that occurred. In the end it's up to her to decide what's acceptable, especially if you don't know her boyfriend and you barely know this girl. Seeing this girl cheat (maybe/maybe not) on her boyfriend firsthand should tell you that she is not relationship material.
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