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Shockedhusband

By Shockedhusband
in Separation and Divorce

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Shockedhusband

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Would it be appropriate to send the the OM a thank you letter? A heart felt thank you for being the catylist that I needed to really start living my life and enjoying what is out there. The wake up call for me to realize that I married the wrong woman for the wrong reason's

 

I am not sure if I have ever been happier in my life after I finally got divorced. Some of you know my story. I found out my wife was cheating on me early in the year. We tried to reconcile but what it came down to is she did not want to work on the marriage so I decided to end it. We still lice together while we are selling our house so that's a little awkward but I still have never been happier.

 

I have been dating a couple women and I truly think I have found a great woman. She is caring, beautiful, happy, adventurous. We went on a couple dates and it was just instant chemistry its almost as if we share a brain. I was actually worried we were moving a bit to fast but she feels the same way. We had both agreed that we would be casually dating but that quickly escalated into me staying the night quite a few nights out of the week.

 

I just wanted to update everyone and let you all know divorce is not the end of the world but it can be the start of a happy new life for you!!!!

phineas Established Member

phineas

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why bother?

Just move past it.

 

I can honestly care less about OM. I get enough drama allready from the STBXW. I don't want anymore.

 

My wife was cheating on me with the OM. At the same time, she was cheating on him with me.

 

but she loves him. "he's her mirror image" :sick:

 

The fact he is still with her is all the punishment he deserves.

If he winds up staying with her long term it'll just be the iceing on the cake.

 

He knew she was married & still chose to carry on with her.

Karma's a ..well you know & it'll bite him.

 

I'm pretty much happy now & will be happier when everything is finally signed.

seibert253 Established Member

seibert253

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Let it go and be done with it. She's his problem now.

 

Get the hell out of the house and have fun.

 

But, take it slow Shocked. Don't jump right back into another relationship. Rebounds have a tendency to crash and burn. Enjoy your freedom, enjoy yourself.

 

I often dream about doing WHAT I want to do, WHEN I want to do it.

 

You've come a long way my friend, I stand in awe.

 

Peace and God Bless,

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