delajoonal Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 a very sweet LSer reminded me today, that we ALL have bad days... and boy, am i having a bad day...one after the other...:( I just NEED a big ol' HUG....does anyone every feel like a big hug would just make the pain go away for even a moment? SO here are IS A:bunny::bunny: BIG HUG :bunny: FOR EVERYONE THAT IS IN PAIN TODAY OR JUST HAVING A BAD DAY PERIOD:o
Odyssey Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 I'm a sucker for big hugs too, when my days aren't always sunshines and rainbows. (()) But... ...somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile. Someone who finds your presence worthwhile. So when you're lonely, remember this is true: Someone, somewhere is thinking of you.
Author delajoonal Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 I'm a sucker for big hugs too, when my days aren't always sunshines and rainbows. (()) But... ...somewhere there's someone who dreams of your smile. Someone who finds your presence worthwhile. So when you're lonely, remember this is true: Someone, somewhere is thinking of you. thank you for sharing this beautiful poem... sure wish it were my H thinking of me...not about all the alimony he has to pay me but about how much he once loved me ... what happened?
Odyssey Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 In three words I can sum up everything I've learned about life - it goes on. Sad but true. Delajoonal, there isn't anything you can do now. Let him go... ...you will be okay.
angelface78 Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 (edited) WE WILL ALL BE OKAY...ITS INEVITABLE. CHANGE IS INEVITABLE...WE CANT BE SAD FOREVER!!! Everybody keep your head up....we are all going to be stronger and wiser when this is over. This is simply the road we had to pass on our way to all of our destinies. We have all crossed paths on our way there. No worries.....its going to be okay!! :bunny::bunny:HUGS FOR EVERYONE :bunny: Edited October 27, 2009 by angelface78
FeelingLonely98 Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 a very sweet LSer reminded me today, that we ALL have bad days... and boy, am i having a bad day...one after the other...:( I just NEED a big ol' HUG....does anyone every feel like a big hug would just make the pain go away for even a moment? Been a bad week for me too dela - Finished D papers and notarized them. Now they are ready for me to deliver to the court for them to set up a hearing before a judge. I was supposed to take it today, but I can not go through that emotion today. I'll go early Monday morning. I had been doing well for several weeks prior to this week. I suppose seeing her twice this week brought back emotions (reminding me I still love her! I wish I didn't anymore.) Also reminded me of the two hardest parts of all this --> 1) how she almost overnight just turned off all feeling for me and the M. It seems like instead of 16 years to her we were together like 16 minutes! 2) And how she lied to me so many times. I never thought she would start lying to me like she did. SHOCKED me. Did I never really know her? Or did she become a different person almost overnight? The Wife I knew for 16 years? I suppose when you are in MLC crisis mode - the allure of something different (even when you have a good M) is so powerful that your whole body, mind, and soul is overtaken by another power or being? She may feel that she is now a "better, stronger" person, but in reality she is not the beautiful person I've been with for 16 years. Sorry to sort of highjack your thread here dela. I just got on a roll. I think in a week I will feel better than this week and SO WILL YOU!!! Here --> HUGS!!!!!! :cool: HUGS!!!!!! :cool: HUGS!!!!!! :cool: HUGS!!!!!! :cool: HUGS!!!!!! :cool: HUGS!!!!!! :cool: PEACE!
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