4givrnt4gtr Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Well, Im currently dealing with a break up with a guy I really cared about....still as bad as that break up has been its nothing compared to what i went thru a few years ago. That guy was the first guy I ever loved. Not really sure why but i did. It was a very long and drawn out thing....roughly 5 years. To this day that guy still cannot talk to me, even though we've tried to be ok in many ocassions (we lived in the same organization so we had to...it was ridiculously hard). Even last year after he moved to the opposite side of the world he still was making rude comments on pictures of me and my then boyfriend (my current ex, whom he also knew) Well, a few weeks ago I found out he is getting married. At first didnt seem that real, after all there was no real mention of it or even of his girlfriend on any of his websites or even facebook. He didnt even have that he was in a relationship. But today he made it official....and its kinda weird to me. I mean.....its not like im hurt about it at all....its just weird. I just never thought i would see the day when he would get married. Has anyone experienced this? when someone who has been very important to you ended up getting married to someone else? its more of a curiousity for me, cuz as i said i never thought i would see the day, that i would find out...but i suppose i had to. Figures. SO how did you guys deal with it? or how did you feel about it?? Its funny cuz since i met this guy Ive had to learn how to deal with a lot of situations i never thought i would find myself in. For instance, he adored me for like...a month, then out of nowhere he stopped and told me he actually mislead me and was in love with someone else for a long time. Still, he couldnt stand being near me and we often ended up making out or even sleeping together with him telling me he wanted that all along to then, a few days later telling me he didnt mean it and walking away. It was hard to deal with but somehow i managed and learned to cope...which coincidentally came in quite handy in the current break up im going thru. In any case....enough of me going down memory lane.... I wanna hear your stories of ex lovers you really cared for who married someone else....
fofiffs Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 well its funny you brought this subject up. My ex who I with for 2 years dumped me almost eight months ago is now getting married to her last ex before me this december. Its kinda F**kED up but I just don't really care anymore.
Author 4givrnt4gtr Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 well its funny you brought this subject up. My ex who I with for 2 years dumped me almost eight months ago is now getting married to her last ex before me this december. Its kinda F**kED up but I just don't really care anymore. Yeah funny thing is....or well maybe not so funny but strange...he is still talking and flirting with the girl he was in love with before we dated, yet he is marrying someone else....he is a total piece of work that fool
fofiffs Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Yeah funny thing is....or well maybe not so funny but strange...he is still talking and flirting with the girl he was in love with before we dated, yet he is marrying someone else....he is a total piece of work that fool Yeah, you really see the person who they really are when your not with them anymore. But everything happens for a reason. Sometimes the person you think your meant to be with is not the person who you should really be with. But honestly though, when I found out she was getting married I wasn't really hurt by it. It kinda surprised me because I realized I dodged a bullet like everyone said. Me and my ex were actually engaged and lived together for a year. Before I met her I didnt want any of that till I finished school and was financially stable. She was the one that wanted to get married and have kids ASAP. Being with her made me forget who I was and what I really wanted to do with my life. I took me a while to realize again what I wanted to do with my life but i'm finally almost close to digging myself out this hole my ex put me in.
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