Mr Fractal Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 The problem is many women don't want a short man because of public appearances. The size of your package won't address this, although they will definitely let their friends know you are packing which will make some women view you differently. The other thing is your package is something women won't see until they have already embraced you. You can't walk around swinging it or bragging about it so it's not really a selling point until after the decision to purchase is made. Finally, there are more size queens that care about height than genitalia size. Having a nice package will give you confidence though and that's something a women finds attractive and can detect from a mile away. Good post. Although I would add that IF a guy has a big flaccid penis it can be obvious enough in the way the pants look, provided he doesn't wear baggy pants, that he may be packing down there. Granted, one can't always go by flaccid size (though there is somewhat of a correlation between flaccid and erect) but I do see some women take a downward glance trying to see if they can get an indication as to what the guy might have.
justforfun Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Oh boy...this thread has gone from second-rate to ridiculous. Good post. Although I would add that IF a guy has a big flaccid penis it can be obvious enough in the way the pants look, provided he doesn't wear baggy pants, that he may be packing down there. Granted, one can't always go by flaccid size (though there is somewhat of a correlation between flaccid and erect) but I do see some women take a downward glance trying to see if they can get an indication as to what the guy might have.
DanielMadr Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Good post. Although I would add that IF a guy has a big flaccid penis it can be obvious enough in the way the pants look, provided he doesn't wear baggy pants, that he may be packing down there. Granted, one can't always go by flaccid size (though there is somewhat of a correlation between flaccid and erect) but I do see some women take a downward glance trying to see if they can get an indication as to what the guy might have. Never go out without rolled socks in your underware. Once I did go out without socks and girls had nothing but contempt for me and my feet were freezing.
burning 4 revenge Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Never go out without rolled socks in your underware. Once I did go out without socks and girls had nothing but contempt for me and my feet were freezing. :laugh:
justforfun Posted November 7, 2009 Posted November 7, 2009 Yeah..but look on the bright side, your knackers were toasty warm Never go out without rolled socks in your underware. Once I did go out without socks and girls had nothing but contempt for me and my feet were freezing.
Mook Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Im just saying it sucks that i have to be some suepr human amazing guy to get a girls attention and your saying all a tall guy has to be is ok to get a women Jesus why is height THAT important?? Seems more then a pereference to a women..They seem to treat it like f'in gold I totally agree that it so seems these days that women so over analyze that their man has to be so damn tall and if the tall guy is simply tall a lady will just throw herself at him. But yet then shorter men at 5'10" which is still fairly tall for guys such as me even though at 5'10" that is much taller than a lot of women even in their heels they want us to have to work to get her. Complete BS in ever sense of the word!! A lady that is in the range of 5'1 to say 5'4" dating a guy that is 5'10" still will tower over her even in her heels. Yet at the same time it just shows how many women still will be looking for that elusive tall guy then they finally will accept a shorter guy. It's like a person searching for that perfect job and they have this perfect vision of how the job should look like, they should be simply handed their perfect job, and they should instantly make $200,000 a year. It simply does not happen like that if like attorneys, doctors etc they have to work up to their salary. But anyway my point is there is no perfect job, perfect life, or perfect person. I think it's a phase that women go through with tall men and yes there are a lot of women that refuse to go with short men but if they have been through several relationships and then eventually see their friends get married and their friends start the family. I think then women start to get into reality and are like I can't afford to be so damn overly picky and if I am so damn picky I will be left behind and she is already left behind because her friends are all getting married, starting their families and moving on with life while this friend is still searching for that super tall ******* that will magically take her away on a horse and automatically has 100 million dollars. Then she finally realizes that that's not reality. I think women try and follow what TV says to date way too much. Yes there are men that do the same but not near as much.
Mook Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 (edited) Continued.... I think a great example for women obsessed with men's height is in life when some people always try to live up to the "jonses" and always trying to live up to their expectations. It's as if a lot of women like to keep hitting their heads against a brick wall until one day they realize you can't and don't want to keep being the follower and always try to live up to people that's just a really sad pathetic way to live. I think for a lot of women once they start to see the picture that you have to live your own life and quit following others and always trying to be the "jonses" or live up to the "jonses" then like a light bulb comes on and then women are like "whatever" then they will date the medium sized guys like the 5'10" that is still fairly tall. Edited December 11, 2009 by Mook
Yukikazi Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Hmm guess I lucked out at 5'11 At least you ladies don't have this womans problem http://news.ninemsn.com.au/glance/972219/worlds-tallest-model-hits-mag
Lizzie60 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I haven't read the whole OP or the thread.. but from the subject line.. I agree.. most women prefer taller guys .. I think. It is my preference.. I like them 5'9 + and if they are 6' + that's a bonus.. If I read 5'2 - 5'6 in the profile... I skipped it.. I know it probably sucks for shorter men.. but some men prefer tall women.. I'm not.. and it's OK.. it's a personal preference.. and it's out of our control...
Waitress Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 My last serious relationship was with a guy who is probably about 5'4". I was in love with him for 8 years. (And I'm a couple inches taller than him.) Some women do refuse to date shorter guys. BUt some guys only date blondes or busty women or women under 30 years-old. It's one of the reasons I stay off the online dating sites. On paper I'm not a 10 but in real life I attract guys without a lot of problem. There are MILLIONS of people out there. Some of them will be attracted to you, no matter who you are.
Mook Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I haven't read the whole OP or the thread.. but from the subject line.. I agree.. most women prefer taller guys .. I think. It is my preference.. I like them 5'9 + and if they are 6' + that's a bonus.. If I read 5'2 - 5'6 in the profile... I skipped it.. I know it probably sucks for shorter men.. but some men prefer tall women.. I'm not.. and it's OK.. it's a personal preference.. and it's out of our control... I would agree with you for men in the height 5'2" to 5'6" do have a harder time. I am lucky with being 5'10" but still if women see men 6' and above they will still go for them. It's just so weird that women even the shorter ones want to bypass the range 5'9" + even though the shorter women like 5'1" to say like 5'4" or 5'5" and with our height at 5'10" we'd still be taller than her with heels on. But I like that you said if a guy was 6' + it's a bonus but for you it's not a deal breaker. I think that what makes guys so angry is when women have this refusual to even consider dating men in the 5' range and are just complete dead set on only ever dating men that are 6' and above.
cognac Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I haven't read the whole OP or the thread.. but from the subject line.. I agree.. most women prefer taller guys .. I think. It is my preference.. I like them 5'9 + and if they are 6' + that's a bonus.. If I read 5'2 - 5'6 in the profile... I skipped it.. I know it probably sucks for shorter men.. but some men prefer tall women.. I'm not.. and it's OK.. it's a personal preference.. and it's out of our control... How tall are you? If you are 5'2-5'6, it is the equivalent of a fat guy saying he won't date fat women , because it's "out of his control". Certainly we'd all laugh at how ridiculous he is. And while women have the right to whatever preference they want, I don't understand why they aren't treated as ridiculous, laughable, and insane like society treats men who only date girls with big tits, fat guys who only want to date skinny girls, etc. I think that it has more to do with the fact that society overlooks it, more than what women can or cannot control. If society made such women feel ridiculous for being 5'1 yet not dating anyone under 5'9 (which it should) I get the feeling most women would change their point of view. Some women do refuse to date shorter guys. BUt some guys only date blondes or busty women or women under 30 years-old.[/Quote] It's a poor comparison. You can make your hair blonde in a matter of minutes, and even then ,there is no evidence that your hair color is a dealbreaker with men. Most men I know happily date brunettes and blondes equally, and considering most blondes are out of the bottle, even the blondes they date are brunette! Unlike women, who think twice about going out with a blonde guy, and puke at the thought of even being seen in public with a ginger. I have yet to see a man in real life or on the internet who is in his 40's asking for only women under 30 (unless he is very wealthy) or who ask women to have a minimum of a C cup (Again, unless very wealthy). However, I rarely see a profile where women do not atleast hint that they only go out with tall guys.
kizik Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 These threads are soooo tired. Shorter guys are less appealing to women. I would know. /end thread
Leonard Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 I laugh at this thread and at the OP I'm only 5'2 and asian (dun dun duuun! What is that, a -2? ) and I've never had serious issues with dating. The problem with you is that you need to realize that people are more picky on online dating personals. You get the option to post your preferences and basically everything to know about you on your own profile for everyone to see and judge superficially. Try meeting people in person for the first time with no prior knowledge of who you are, and work some charisma. Tell them stories that show them that you aren't some timid soft small thing, but by all means don't lie to them. I had a story myself of when I beat up someone who was 6'0 for shoving me against a wall, and it was a true story. What you need to change is your goddamn sad mindset about height and thinking it's all the woman's fault. Women are stupid, in a sense that it's not their fault they are victims to their own animal instincts to find men with strong physical traits. Show off your other traits that shows that you are an alpha male. *I* am the life of parties, *I* tell people which movie *I* want to see, *I* decide where to go, and you'll find out how easily people just will follow through with you because you are assertive. Show some leadership and show people that you don't give a damn. You don't even need to make sure that anyone sees this directly, women (and men) will automatically gravitate to you at parties and social events anyway, just because you are someone who appears to be in control. Some women approach me and ask for my number, and I turn them down. Not because they are unattractive, but because I think I am a golden lottery ticket and they don't scale up to me. You should start thinking the same way. Some can say that's arrogance, some can say that's confidence, I just think it's who I am. Develop a toxic and addictive personality, meet people in person, think you're worth a million dollars (because you are) and people have to earn your attention, have some interesting stories at hand that helps describe your amazing traits, and you might find yourself in a pile of people who can't get enough of you. Now stop complaining like a baby thinking you have it harder than others, and good luck. I hope you can change your attitude and energy around, really, I mean it. Now im hungry... time to make some pastaaaaaaaaa.....
PJKino Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Short guys get discouraged be height becasue its the single biggest dealbreaker in the dating world and the one thing u cant change plus theyres no female body part equivelant that Men are THAT strict about. Ive never seen a man like a girls perosnality and face and say well she has an a or b cup instead of a c i cant date her Ive seen women who wont date guys under 5'9 reject a guy who had everyhtign else she looekd for in a man but was only 5'7 1/2 Now we all can have preferences but i think its borderlien isnane that you wouldnt give a person a chance who could be special and you could ldick with the rest of yourl life over a few inches If an inch or tow makes that much differnce to you you arent looking for love your looking for an accesory
kizik Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 PJ, time to take an English class, buddy. Punctuation is your friend.
PJKino Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 PJ, time to take an English class, buddy. Punctuation is your friend. lol Sorry im doing a few things at a time here and was in a rush..Plus i cant edit it:p
PJKino Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Some of why women prefering tall men is hardwired but some of it is also social... I remember a girl telling me im cute but she wont date short guys because she was told Tall Dark and Handsome is good and short fat and bald is bad mind you im not fat or bald but allot of girls are idiots and slaves to what theyre told is attratcive and what isnt.. Still i know plenty of short guys who get women..If yuor attratcive as long as your nto extremely short you should have no problems with women.. Women who throw these exact numbers around in what they want in height couldnt tell you a persons height by lookign at them.. Some of em throw numbers around becasue it makes them feel important like well if i have these strict requirements i must be a catch... Bottom line is if you are somewhat good lookind and work your way into a womens heart most women will give you a chance..And if they wotn give u a chance eve if your a great guy because
cognac Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Short guys get discouraged be height becasue its the single biggest dealbreaker in the dating world and the one thing u cant change plus theyres no female body part equivelant that Men are THAT strict about. Ive never seen a man like a girls perosnality and face and say well she has an a or b cup instead of a c i cant date her Ive seen women who wont date guys under 5'9 reject a guy who had everyhtign else she looekd for in a man but was only 5'7 1/2 Now we all can have preferences but i think its borderlien isnane that you wouldnt give a person a chance who could be special and you could ldick with the rest of yourl life over a few inches If an inch or tow makes that much differnce to you you arent looking for love your looking for an accesory Regardless of the spelling errors, this post is really good. I can't tell you how many times I had mutual (I can tell) "chemistry" with women, but there was always something holding the girl back and it was always with few exception my height (I am 5'7). So many girls who thought I was perfect, EXCEPT for my height, and this one thing is what got in the way of perhaps finding great and meaningful companionship. These girls weren't even the stereotype bottle blonde sorority girls you expect it from either, they were relatively normal, and of decent intellect, every day girls who weren't even that stunning physically to be so goddamn picky. I know for a fact that if I was 6 feet tall, I would probably be taking a new woman to bed every night. I've got all the traits women want, except for that one, and that ONE trait makes me go from an 8-9 to a 3-4 in the eyes of almost all women . But hey, gotta play with the cards you're dealt with. Right now my cards are get a wife from a foreign country or B) marry Roseanne Barr, because despite being relatively good looking and in good shape with an interesting, confident, and funny personality, I am on that same level according to majority of women.
AD1980 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 (edited) I dont buy the short guy and the fat women comparison..I think its better to compare to breast size... If the short guy is fat then yes.. If a short guy is ripped and has a six pack what exactly does he have in common with some fat sloppy women who has no self control to close her mouth and refuses to do any activity accept sit and gain weight? You think a women would look at a short ripped dudes body the same way a guy would look at a fat womens body? Makes no sense. Edited December 11, 2009 by AD1980
Yukikazi Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Breast size isn't really a fair comparison as implants will resolve that issue. Has to be an issue that is beyond a girls control..
AD1980 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 (edited) Breast size isn't really a fair comparison as implants will resolve that issue. Has to be an issue that is beyond a girls control.. There is no equivalent..I just think breast is the closest you can get in terms of immediate reaction.. The fat women comparsion is awful unless the short guys fat..Its what skinny girls with no breasts use as an excuse to not come off as a hypocrite in theyre preference.. You know who should be compared to fat women? FAT MEN wheter short or tall.. As i said if a short dude[not extremely short] is ripped or in good shape he has zero in common with a fat girl.. Edited December 11, 2009 by AD1980
kizik Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 There is no equivalent Yes there is. A woman's NOSE. Lots of chicks forgive guys for big schnozzes, but what a curse to be a big-nosed woman. There's your short-guy equivalent.
AD1980 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 (edited) Yes there is. A woman's NOSE. Lots of chicks forgive guys for big schnozzes, but what a curse to be a big-nosed woman. There's your short-guy equivalent. lol i guess ill go with it:laugh: *Hits on first women with a big nose tells her where both part of the same struggle* Edited December 11, 2009 by AD1980
MeganDoll Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Tall is just sexy we shouldnt have to explain our preferences to you guys it is what it is. Short men can still get average or below avergae women learn to embrace it,bottom line is all women fantasize about tall knights in the shining armor Even short guys who get women your women is probably fantasizing that she was with a tall guy,they have that much power over us:love:
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