aerogurl87 Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 So I take it you're the only woman in the history of the world who doesn't use sex as a weapon? I'm sure next you'll deny that women control if sex happens or not. Last time I checked, it's rape if she doesn't agree. Hence, women control whether sex happens or not, so they use that to control men. They always have, always will. Don't you read the news? There was some African nation where the women all got together to refuse sex to their husbands until they stopped warring with some other nation.. You don't really believe what you wrote, do you? Maybe you're being dishonest with him as well, as he finds that to be a turnoff? I'm with the OP, as a woman I love sex and I do not use it as a weapon against my BF. In fact I get frustrated sometimes when he says he's too tired to do it or too stressed out. But I think that she should find someone else because sex is a big part of a relationship IMO. If the sex drives aren't even near compatible or if someone isn't putting any effort into making a compromise then the relationship is doomed.
adamt Posted October 30, 2009 Posted October 30, 2009 Went out with my ex for 3 years and for the last year she seemed to want sex less and less. got to the point where we didnt have sex for the last 4-5 months. looking back i dont know how i put up with it.(i guess i loved her too much to want to risk a break up) In the end i gave up having to make all the effort to initiate sex. she prefered to read a book or just get up earlier and do house jobs. She had always tired before me when we had sex anyway. We drifted apart as i felt no closeness to her anymore. Looking back something should have been done a lot sooner. Once the sex goes right down, i think there is no way back. You shouldnt let it drag on. I've just started dating a new girl who seems a lot more sporty and active so fingers crossed we are more of a match. the girlfriend before the ex always tired me out!
Author oooriotgrrrl Posted October 30, 2009 Author Posted October 30, 2009 Went out with my ex for 3 years and for the last year she seemed to want sex less and less. got to the point where we didnt have sex for the last 4-5 months. looking back i dont know how i put up with it.(i guess i loved her too much to want to risk a break up) In the end i gave up having to make all the effort to initiate sex. she prefered to read a book or just get up earlier and do house jobs. She had always tired before me when we had sex anyway. We drifted apart as i felt no closeness to her anymore. Looking back something should have been done a lot sooner. Once the sex goes right down, i think there is no way back. You shouldnt let it drag on. I've just started dating a new girl who seems a lot more sporty and active so fingers crossed we are more of a match. the girlfriend before the ex always tired me out! Best of luck! I'm happy to report that we've been talking about the problem and have came up with some solutions. And to top it off, we had some really hot sex last night! Yeah!
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