a2foamer Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 I am a sophomore in high school. There is a girl in my german class who I am interested in. We have talked a little bit, and she finds some things that I say funny. Most converations start with a certain event happening that we both find humor in. We have discussed movies and TV shows sporadically, and even some politics. These are usually quite short conversations, because they are only in class. I really want to talk to her more, and am wondering how to start converations. What should I say when she walks in? She sits right behind me. I think that things like "how is your day going" are really corny, and neither of us are into small talk very much.
Author a2foamer Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 People like to talk about themselves - just ask her things about her and you'll be fine. Like what should I say more specifically? It seems very akward just to satrt asking about her. Is there a way to be "smoother' about it?
f_known123 Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 If you are hesitant in talking to her then best way is to express your feelings using a card. Send her an eCard. I did that for one of my class mates and it really worked. Check this website http://cardfunk.com to find the best cards.
harmfulsweetz Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Just ask her about what music she likes, movies she wants to see etc. Ask her how she is, is she going to the football game etc etc. Try not to sound like a spanish inquisition, but just say something along the lines of 'hello, you ok?' That should get you started. Then move on to asking her if she knows the answer to the question, (even if you know it ask!) Then keep the conversation flowing, and try and walk her to her next class. You'll soon find out if she likes you. Then go for it!
Author a2foamer Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 OK, so today we got our school pictures. I had mine, and she grabbed them and complimented on the color or something like "the green goes well with your hair." Does this mean anything?
harmfulsweetz Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 It sounds like a roundabout way of complimenting you, like she may be too shy to come out and out and say it, but she wants to. She may be giving you hints.
Recommended Posts