AvianChaos Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 My girlfriend of 2.5 years broke up with me over 5 months ago. I have tried to avoid any contact for about 4 months and have not seen or talked to her at all in two months. I am still very much in love with her and i know she is not seeing anyone else. Tomorrow marks what would be our 3 year anniversary; which would have been very important to both of us. I was thinking i might send her a simple text saying "just wanted you to know i was thinking of you today" What do you guys think?
NopeNah Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 ummm...NO! Unless you want to go back to square one, that is. It's NOT your 3yr tomorrow. It WOULD have been.
adamt Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 No don't contact her, if she was wanting to get back with you she will have got intouch. She knows exactly how you feel so any regrets and shewould have got intouch. worry about yourself. if you do get back together then you need to be emotionally in a stronger position and she wants to get back together from her decision
Author AvianChaos Posted October 26, 2009 Author Posted October 26, 2009 Thanks guys, I just cant think straight when it comes to her! This is NOT worth breaking NC
Meaplus3 Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 No! Your doing a fantastic job sticking with NC.. don't back slide now. Keep it up and your will be over her in NO time. Give yourself a big pat on the back for all the hard work you've accomplished here. You can do it. Mea:)
angelface78 Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 DONT DO IT!! THERES NO POINT!!! You will only torture yourself. You will be waiting for a response. YOU CANT LIVE IN THE PAST HUN!! In December it would've been my 5 years with my ex...but i will not contact him because its NOT our anniversary!! Keep your head up and be strong!!!
Soul Bear Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 It will only end in tears...... Don't do it. Tomorrow night is YOUR night....You're going to do something for yourself........... Its your anniversary for dodging a bullet So celebrate missing out on a certain death!!! Things are going to be even better for you after this...
Thebob Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 NUFF SAID.... get yo mind outta da gutter son. Don't write that to her Thebob
tryagaintoday Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Yeah, listen to thebob and all of us here. They stopped me from doing something stupid like this few weeks back. I'm now seeing someone else, very happy with my current life and has very little dreams or thoughts about her. All the best!
Thebob Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 we are your guardian angels! lol. Im tryin to remember you tryagaintoday.... hmmm Thebob
Surfer Girl Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 She broke up with you..... She needs to contact you first...
hopefullove Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 ahhh day 6 of NC for myself... i am soooo close to breaking it right now.. i just had a big cry... ahhhhhhhhh!!!!!! i know, i post against doing it.... but the last thing i said to him, is that i feel that he is a very different person and that i dont know him anymore. ahhh in my head i think that has offended him... because i havent heard from him since... and i only said it because he only sent me an email or message every 2 weeks, but nothing in those messages indicated anything was wrong.... ok ok no no... dont do it dont do it... ok i talked myself out of it for now... oh man thank you for these boards.
Thebob Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 DONT DO IT HOPEFUL, or i will have to come over to your house and destroy your internet connection and terminate your phone service ( I wont actually do that lol ). But hopefully you catch my drift. NC IT and move on, let him call you if he ever does. If he doesn't then it was never meant to be. The end. hope this helps. Thebob
lemeng Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 for everyone who want to break NC what do you have to gain? if you want to break NC clearly you are not over her or him when i tried to get over my ex i made a deal with myself every time i feel the need to contact her i would do something to improve myself like taking a hair cut or shave or do 10 push ups clip my nails clean my house tare is a lot of things you can do for your self use your pain as a motivation to improve yourself and always be positive good things happen we you want to be happy
AMR Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 RESIST!!!!! today is day 30 of NC for me... well after a previous botched attempt which got to almost three months of NC. the other night i was at a concert and a song came on that had some humorous/sentimental meaning to us. I had a few beers and wound up sending her a text about it!!!!! Then a second one!!!!! then after an hour of no response...an apology text!!!!!! still no response. so i spend the rest of the night just so mad and embarassed that i caved.... and when i woke up the next morning and remembered what had happened, i looked at my phone and realized that i texted the wrong number!!!! oh thank jebus!!!!! feeling that horrible regret that i caved and ruined another month of NC only to be relieved has suddenly strengthened my commitment to NC. so...... i dont know what the point of that story really was. i guess it's that it's super hard and painful when you want to call and you dont know if you should...but as soon as you are on the other side of that decision, it feels even worse. even if you don't want to believe it at the moment.
McGrupp Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 yeah i broke mine on monday. ugh 25 days down the tube. we talked for awhile but then i sent a sappy email. shoot me please
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