CM2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Update [COLOR=#660000]http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t182436/[/COLOR] [COLOR=#660000]http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t183846/[/COLOR] [COLOR=#660000]http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t195632/[/COLOR] Ok folks I haven't been back in a while but I decided to come and give some updates. I really appreciated a lot of advice I've received from the people here, you can imagine how much a lot of it has helped me. Just to update everyone I'm doing great I made it through classes, I took a trip to Philadelphia to see the Eagles play the Chiefs last month, I was in this flag football league (early Oct) even though I ended up fracturing a bone in my foot but oh well. I've rekindled old friendships with friends that I haven't seen or heard from in a long time, as well as talking to a "friend" that was friends with in High School and she's going through sort of the same issues and my wife and I, so everything is on the up for me. I had a lil situation that I wanted to run by everyone here, if anyone wants to re-read my story I posted links above about my wife leaving. A few weeks ago after I broke my foot I needed to go to the Dr's office and I didn't have away to get there, a lot of my friends were either out of town or at work soooooo I called "her" and told her I needed a ride to the Dr's office so she took me twice in a one week span. I mean it was cool no fusing, no fighting it was peaceful, so the second time she took me my "friend" called me while the wife was taking me back home and me and my friend just started having a conversation and I probably made my wife uncomfortable but oh well. So last week while I was at work I got a call out of the blue from my wife checking on me and asking why didn't I take time off like the Dr. said but me I needed to work to make some money plus I didn't wanna sit around at home and do nothing and then she wanted to tell me and it was an apology. An apology that came way outta left field, she said she that she was wrong for how things went down between her and I, she said she handled things wrong and me I'm sitting at my desk shocked as hell to hear this and not knowing what to think. I'm cool now it took me a second to let that sink in and I figured let me see what others think...... So what do you think??
Exit Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Probably just wanting to relieve herself of some of the guilt she feels for what she did.
NopeNah Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 I think it's nothing more than letting go of her guilt. Take for what it's worth...NOTHING! It took my ex wife 7years to apologize for her actions. Did I need to hear it? nope! Did it make me think any different of her? nope! Maybe if she had said it before she "died" to me as a person?ehh...nope! But, after 2 more failed marriages on her part? haha! Good to see you're doing better! Sucks about the foot! and I pray you're not a chiefs fan..that'd be almost as bad as the divorce..
Author CM2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Author Posted October 26, 2009 I think it's nothing more than letting go of her guilt. Take for what it's worth...NOTHING! It took my ex wife 7years to apologize for her actions. Did I need to hear it? nope! Did it make me think any different of her? nope! Maybe if she had said it before she "died" to me as a person?ehh...nope! But, after 2 more failed marriages on her part? haha! Good to see you're doing better! Sucks about the foot! and I pray you're not a chiefs fan..that'd be almost as bad as the divorce.. Nah Imma Eagles fan!!
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