my rationality is there, but my emotions are still behind

[someguyonthenet]

hey all, Ive been broken up for about a month and a half. my ex and i broke up because she started to say it was draining here and she needed to focus on work and school. i don't buy it because the things i ask of her are things any bf would ask of his gf(i.e. dont hang out with those guys because i know he likes u, dont go to clubs, things like that). i was with her for 1 and half years, and i fully devoted myself to her. made me feel as if life was progressing, now that we are broken up i can see why it was for better, but i still hurt(not as much as in the beginning), but shes still on my mind all the time. any thoughts? i know some of you have amazing experiences in this. its kinda hard because i unconditionally loved her!

[McGrupp]

have you gone NC or do you still contact her?

[someguyonthenet]

after we broke up, nc for about 2-3 weeks then she called and we talked and spent the night together, and then she called/txt/im me once in each format to ask for something she needed for about 1 week. and after that nc til now