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13nc today but my ex gf keeps contacting me? She's not asking to get back together, she's just telling me she loves & misses me. I would (and have done) ignore her but she really unsettles me & today I almost feel I just can't cope ... Should I just ignore or message her back telling her it's not fair and to leave me alone?

 

It's 3 steps forward & 3 steps back

 

pls help

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What's the back story?

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It's a real long one brother and I can't post the links cos Im writing on my phone. 2 threads tilted 'text flurry can anyone decipher (spelt incorrectly as desipher) and not coping well at all (depressive ... Both threads are in the 1st 2 pages in coping

 

Sat here waiting for a response/advice of what to do ... What a sad man I've become

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just ask her to leave you alone!

 

Dont let her get to you

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I've read that string. All I know is that love is a strange, powerful and very HUGE thing to deal with, especially if you are the only one feeling it. You can not be friends with someone you have loved. What is the point really? Why settle for a level of interpersonal contact that is less than what you had? Don't contact her unless she is willing to give as much effort as you are into fixing what is/was wrong. Just try and fix you. I know it's hard. I know you can't see the future and it looks bleek but keep the faith in yourself that you will be happy again. You don't need someone in your life that only wants you for convenience. Try and be strong brother. My weekend sucked too. You are not alone.

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Thanks Lishy & cdt for your opinions

 

I've decided to ignore her. If I do respond she will just carry on regardless. I guess if I just ignore she'll eventually get bored. It's real hard cos I love her and want her back but I can't keep playing these silly games

 

Thanks cdt for reading my threads, means alot

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I've tried not to respond to too many threads because I find it hard to follow my own advice! All I know is that if you love someone, it is miserable when they don't want to love you back. It's hard to justify in your mind to let that part go. I know I can't or at least not yet. So when you play mind games with yourself that she is coming back...well, probably not. It's also hard to say "well, I wouldn't want her back anyway" because you think about all the good times you had and forget the bad times and how you thought she is the "ONE". I know these thoughts. They hit me all the time. Mine has not contacted me at all because she is banging my co-worker and enjoying the life and friends that I introduced her too. So I don't have to deal with her voice or texts, I do have to deal with him.....WHICH SUCKS! But we will win in the end. I know we will because I have faith.

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