Toby25 Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Sorry about the title... I need help on a complex problem Me and my ex-girlfriend were together for a little over 2 years. She was visiting her family (family emergency) for an extended period of time a few hundred miles away. Prior to her leaving she had brought up the idea of having a threesome. The idea grew on me and I agreed to do it. She wanted to have another guy participate which was fine by me. After a few weeks of considering our options she regained contact with an old friend that used to have an interest in her. She brought up the idea of the threesome to him, after asking me if it was ok that she did that. I told her yes. So they continued to talk with each other… my ex always kept me up to date on the situation, she didn’t hide anything. She told me that he wanted to have sex with her first before the threesome (which would have been a month or two away)… She was open for the idea and asked me about it. At first I said no, but after a few days of thinking about it the idea sort of excited me. So I eventually agreed to it. A day or two later she called me and told me everything that they did and was very honest about it. I was extremely bugged by the events… and could not get over them. A couple of weeks went by and I pretty much ended the relationship. I have sort of become involved with another girl in the mean time but I still deeply want my ex. I miss her and think about her everyday… I sort of wish our relationship hadn’t ended but at the same time I think it may have been for the best. She has broken off all contact with me and would prefer if I didn’t contact her. Also her roommate has asked me if she wants to get back with her and that if I can’t come back in her life as her lover than she can’t have me in her life. What should I do… I need some outside perspective on this situation. Thank you for any advice.
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