findintherightone Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Ok so i am in 8th grade and i have been liking this girl in my grade. I am pretty popular and am friends with al the girls. There was a party for the girl i like and one of her friends tell me thag she likes some 9th grade guy whos at the party. I talked to her about it and she confirmed my fears. Now i am feeling i am not sure... A little less than heartbroken? I really like this girl... is there anything i can do to get her to like me?
boogieboy Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Have you even talked to her yet? Theres nothing you can do once she is focused on that guy. So you have to wait until he dissappoints her to make any moves. Also let her see you with other girls hugging you. You want to look like all the girls desire you.
xpaperxcutx Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Most girls don't take their crushes and relationships in high school pretty seriously. That said, what you have for this girl is puppy love and even if she does crush your heart, you will get over it. Why don't you wait until you're actually in high school? I'm guessing you're still in junior high and once you hit high school, there are more prettier girls you'll fall in love with.
Author findintherightone Posted October 26, 2009 Author Posted October 26, 2009 Yes i talk to her a lot. The thing is, hugs in my school dont mean much, they are given out regularly. I flirt with other girls sometimes, but pretty lightly and when i do she only glances at me for a second.. She isnt the totally hottest girl in my grade, but i love her personality, that what i like about her most
boogieboy Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Then start flirting heavier with the other girls until she starts showing you some attention. The idea is to get the other girls to start flirting with you, and you have to beat them off with a stick. Thats what she has to see. Meantime, when you do talk to her, make sure you look confident, like you dont need her, and you will never need her. And you are only talking to her to entertain yourself, not her.
Author findintherightone Posted October 26, 2009 Author Posted October 26, 2009 yes she told me that the guy she liked has a girlfriend so shes trying not ti like him
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