TwilightSky Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Stuttering is a huge problem for me when I am talking to girls. My sentence structure gets messed up too, alot. For instance, I had this problem today when a pretty attractive girl came up to me, smiling (getting close) and asking where a certain type of cheese was. I had to go ask somebody and after I told her where it was (stuttering all the while), I could see her roll her eyes a bit. She probably thought I was slow lol. Anyway, is stuttering a mental habit I can break. Or am I stuck with it till I die?
amymarieca Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 My theory on stuttering is that people who do it are not taking a big enough breath before they speak. That would make sense when you are nervous. I also think that people with a stuttering problem need to produce the sound of their voice using their diaphram rather than the throat.
boogieboy Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 I know whats wrong with you TS, your thoughts are speeding in your head and bottlenecking when they get to your mouth. I used to be this way. Youre trying to say them all at once. You have to practice relaxing and thinking about what you want to say first, then speaking deliberately and slowly. Then you can start speaking to women. You cant blow an opportunity for cute women to walk up to you. That was a flirt my brudda.
Author TwilightSky Posted October 26, 2009 Author Posted October 26, 2009 I know whats wrong with you TS, your thoughts are speeding in your head and bottlenecking when they get to your mouth. I used to be this way. Youre trying to say them all at once. You have to practice relaxing and thinking about what you want to say first, then speaking deliberately and slowly. Then you can start speaking to women. You cant blow an opportunity for cute women to walk up to you. That was a flirt my brudda. That's what it seemed like to me (can't be sure). When I came back to tell her she said "There he is!" with a big smile on her face. Maybe she was just really friendly, heh. Anyway, I wish talking to girls would be easier.
boogieboy Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Anyway, I wish talking to girls would be easier. Like anything else, nothing comes easy. Talking to girls smoothly takes work, and practice. So stop complaining and start practicing.
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