RHCPMetallica Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Well, I'm a university student and I have noticed that for the past couple of weeks this beautiful girl in 4 of my classes keeps on staring at me. At first she used to sit relatively far from me in class and glanced towards me a few times each class. Later on, however, she gradually began to sit closer to me and now... well it's getting kind of odd. She doesn't just glance at me, she gazes several times each class I have with her and she makes sure that she sits as close to me as possible. I met her gazes a few times and she either quickly twitches and then turns around, or she continues to stare and starts fiddling with her hair in a very cute way haha. So, last week I decided to talk to her and give her a shot, by asking her for help on an assignment and I found out that she is so incredibly SHY. When she speaks its barely audible, so after the conversation I decided that she wasn't really my type and decided to forget about her since it's rather hard to maintain a conversation with her. After talking to her for a bit, though, she is starting to stare at me in class a lot more. I'm not being delusional, and sorry if this sounds conceited, but out of 400 students in the class she continuously looks only at me, or the teacher. So, I was thinking I'd try again and maybe she would feel more comfortable with me, but, since I'm very sure she's atleast interested in me, is it a bad idea to ask her straight up during one of our breaks if she'd like to go for a cup of coffee even if I hardly know her? I think she would be less shy if we get to know each other a bit more. I feel like I have to do something because every class seems like a staring contest. Thanks and sorry about the rather long post...
Clep Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 I would just share with her that you would like to go for a cup of coffee to get to know each other a little more. See what she says and if you can't hear her just let her know very nicely it is hard to get to know her if you can't hear her. Smile and be non threatening when you say it. See if she speaks up a little.
Ariadne Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 I think your best shot is to walk out of class with her and see what happens. Asking her for coffee doesn't sound bad. I'd imagine you were interested in me if you said that.
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