liquiddreams Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Hi it's a first post here. I'm also really pissed off with my guy many times like a week. We have totally different personality and yet we have been together for like near a year. There are so many times we quarrelled over the littlest thing and honestly, sometimes it accumulates and makes me doubt being with him for the rest of my life.Which actually means I've thought of breaking up, but i'm not sure if i want to, neither do i dare to do so. Because, my bf is extremely good in talking back, he can do so to a limit that when it is his fault, he could actually go on and on talking and in the end, it'll be my fault, and really, for this pass one year of being together with him i have and had always been the one apologising. For incidents like asking me if i want to catch a movie, i said no, and ended up we were walking and shopping in a mall and that bores him, pisses him off and in the end, my fault for spoiling his precious off work day again. And also things like me after walking for a distance with him, and we decided to walk in to this very pretty high tea restaurant, i was tired, of course i was, i walked like a 2 km distance to that restaurant and in the end, when the cake was served, i was in a way stoning, and that pisses him off again, he didn't talk to me at all so i assumed i was allowed to do so. End up again, he scolded me, and said this will be the last time he'll ever bring me for high tea again since i am prone to stoning in the afternoon. Gosh, at that point of time i was enraged. Me and my mum does high teaing every sunday and who cares about the expensive beverages and cakes. There are many other incidents. I just feel that it sucks to be the one who gets pushed around. He always say he is very busy so he can treat me this way. But to be honest, when he has nothing on, he is extremely nice to me. Guys i'm really in a dilemma please help me out here. You know i tried not to get on his toes by pasting post sticks every where with these 3 words; 1.Tolerance 2.Promise 3.Understanding. Please give me some advices.
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