salem mark Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Has anyone ever dated one thats meet the below description. I just got dumped by one, she hid it pretty well for a couple of months. A member of the female gender which experiences drastic mood swings accompanied by irrationality while placing the blame for such behavior on her spouse. BEWARE! A PB typically is capable of hiding her disorder until she has her spouse lulled into a sense of comfort. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: throwing objects, shouting explicatives, vandalizing her spouses automobile, beating on doors at all hours of the night, spending excessive amounts of money, criticising one for their actions and doing the same herself, typically raised by another PB, princess complex, and usually wild in bed. Any ex in which you have muttered....."Crazy %$#@$!ing bitch." usually qualifies as an example.
RedDevil66 Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Has anyone ever dated one thats meet the below description. I just got dumped by one, she hid it pretty well for a couple of months. A member of the female gender which experiences drastic mood swings accompanied by irrationality while placing the blame for such behavior on her spouse. BEWARE! A PB typically is capable of hiding her disorder until she has her spouse lulled into a sense of comfort. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: throwing objects, shouting explicatives, vandalizing her spouses automobile, beating on doors at all hours of the night, spending excessive amounts of money, criticising one for their actions and doing the same herself, typically raised by another PB, princess complex, and usually wild in bed. Any ex in which you have muttered....."Crazy %$#@$!ing bitch." usually qualifies as an example. I've met men like this so it's not gender specific to be a psycho. I know you're angry with this girl, but use your energy to figure out why YOU pick these women and stop putting the focus on why she's a nut!
CLC2008 Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 If she did those things, then in your own right, you should have nor want anything to do with someone who would go around vandalizing your vehicle and banging on your doors and cursing at you like that. A lot of us come here to vent our frustration but calling someone a name as horrible as that to someone you once "loved" doesn't speak well of you either.
carhill Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Yup, I'm an expert at picking them, so have developed a sense of humor about it As RD66 mentioned, take a hard look at yourself. The answers lie within you. I looked in the mirror of reality and saw that answer. You can too.
TheLoneSock Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Has anyone ever dated one thats meet the below description. I just got dumped by one, she hid it pretty well for a couple of months. A member of the female gender which experiences drastic mood swings accompanied by irrationality while placing the blame for such behavior on her spouse. BEWARE! A PB typically is capable of hiding her disorder until she has her spouse lulled into a sense of comfort. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: throwing objects, shouting explicatives, vandalizing her spouses automobile, beating on doors at all hours of the night, spending excessive amounts of money, criticising one for their actions and doing the same herself, typically raised by another PB, princess complex, and usually wild in bed. Any ex in which you have muttered....."Crazy %$#@$!ing bitch." usually qualifies as an example. Behind every pretty face, there's a guy who's got tired of dealing with her ****.
CaliGuy Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Has anyone ever dated one thats meet the below description. I just got dumped by one, she hid it pretty well for a couple of months. A member of the female gender which experiences drastic mood swings accompanied by irrationality while placing the blame for such behavior on her spouse. BEWARE! A PB typically is capable of hiding her disorder until she has her spouse lulled into a sense of comfort. Symptoms include, but are not limited to: throwing objects, shouting explicatives, vandalizing her spouses automobile, beating on doors at all hours of the night, spending excessive amounts of money, criticising one for their actions and doing the same herself, typically raised by another PB, princess complex, and usually wild in bed. Any ex in which you have muttered....."Crazy %$#@$!ing bitch." usually qualifies as an example. Yes, once. I never, ever put up with that again and if they show it, as this last "date" happened to show (well, we went on like 4 dates), I kick 'em to the curb. No time or patience for "Daddy's little Princess"...
CaliGuy Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Behind every pretty face, there's a guy who's got tired of dealing with her ****. I think it goes "No matter how hot she is, somewhere out there is a guy who is sick of her sh*t!"
ecm Posted October 26, 2009 Posted October 26, 2009 Well....did you go play hide the salami with someone else or something? If so, then her behavior might be allowable. Otherwise... make better choices
lilbelle Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 yeah, I'm wondering what you did to provoke the behavior. Most women go through these actions at some point... we are menstrual.
Lost&Found Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Sounds like she has a some kind of mental disorder, possibly bi-polar. She actually might need some psychological help and medication. My ex had drastic mood swings, paranoia, and always placed all the blame on me. She has borderline personality disorder which causes major problems in relationships so I tried not to blame her, but enough was eventually enough for both of us to deal.
trueblue72ny Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 been there, done that, got the t-shirt. don't want to go through that again. i can tell you if i run into that again, i will run for the hills quicker than a marathon runner.
AnthonyMalibu Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 I've dated several of them, unfortunately. What's funny is it's like you said - they do a good job of hiding it at first. Everything's great in the beginning, and they show you the 'good' side of themselves for a long while. My theory on them being wild in bed, like you said, is because this is where they cut loose after being on their best behavior around you. Once they get comfortable, you see the true nature of the beast. Happy one minute, angry as hell the next, borderline suicidally depressed an hour later. The next day they wake up as if nothing happened, wondering why you're so down or confused about the relationship... and just as you start to cheer up and think the bullsh*t is over? They suddenly rage again... and over the stupidest, most insignificant little things. Obviously, a normal person never deserves to be treated like this. She did you a favor by dumping you. But mark my words: ignore her and she'll be back. New boyfriend or not, any girl who's this bipolar will try to sack you again the very first major fight she has with her new man. It's just her nature.
trueblue72ny Posted November 2, 2009 Posted November 2, 2009 Bingo. Couldnt have said that any better myself Anthony. They are always full of fine promises and good intentions in the beginning just to suck you in.
Limbo21 Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 This thead has actually given me strength! My ex had her moments of being a PB & kept it hidden till I fell in love, then slowly she started to demonstrate some of the above and more. Insecurity was her problem (I never understood that as she was stunningly beautiful and intelligent but I guess there's many facets to inner confidence) Love this thread Mark. Good on you brother
AliveAndKicking Posted November 3, 2009 Posted November 3, 2009 I could tell you stories that would curl your..... toenails. It is not gender-specific. They come in all shapes and sizes. I made it to middle-age before I encountered mine. I would much rather my ex had trashed my car, my home, emptied my bank account, etc., than to have done the things she did. It is the damage to my psyche, my soul, my "self" that is the most difficult to recover from. It was/is the most difficult, painful, and frightening time of my life and the scars will take a long time to fade, if ever. Such a waste. Just a damned tragic astronomically-proportioned waste. *sigh*
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