taybird Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 So my ex and I broke up a little over a month ago. We were together for almost a year. (actually our year anniversary is coming on sat halloween) We are both in college in our last year. A lot of my friends are starting to get engaged and become more and more serious with there relationships. The reason why we broke up is because 1. I said a few things that I should have NEVER said.. I pretty much told him he was a piece of **** and that his spending habits were not gonna keep me around if he kept doing it. He just doesn't take school serious and I just feel like it is a joke when I know he really does care about me. He got mad and was like I am done. I also lied to him about how many guys that I slept with because 3 of the guys that I did before him I want to forget and never remember so I don't think of them as my numbers. We broke up and and I tried EVERYTHING and all he keeps saying is he needs time and space and that he doesn't know what to do cause he feels hurt. I told him I am human and people say things that they don't mean. I finally came to the point where I wanted to tell him in person that this whole keeping me attached on a string is done. Cause he has with texting me randomly to tell me that he got an A on a test or about our puppy. He is not doing well with school and has been going out and hooking up with other girls. I know we are not together and we are broken up when all this happened but it hurts cause I have not done that and will not do that. I want to get back with him more then anything else in the world. I have NEVER felt like this for any guy he is the one I know I am suppose to marry. I talk to his friends and they tell me he still cares and loves you he just doesn't know what he wants. I am afraid he is gonna screw up and not know what to do cause I have been helping him with everything. I am trying to move on and keep busy. Between going home a lot more now, classes, getting ready to apply to grad school and graduate in May. I just heard that he will still be here because he is screwing up in school. I want to move on but I am afraid he will realize and come back soon hopefully. So I am slowly moving on but if he comes back I will take him back. I just don't know what to think about him hooking up with girls. Like I know he is a guy but I never would do that and when I asked him and he told me he did. WHat do you think I need to do? Will he come back? I have NEVER felt like this for anyone else in my life. With my two past exs before him I was able to move on right away.. Now I can't and don't want to because he means more to me then anything. I would take my life for him if he was between me and him.
Ariadne Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 I pretty much told him he was a piece of **** He just doesn't take school serious lied to him about how many guys that I slept with texting me randomly to tell me that he got an A on a test hooking up with other girls It seems like you managed to make him very insecure. The fact that you seem to value school so much and he is not doing well must have affected him, and the name calling didn't help. I can see why he needs time to sort things out. If you truly love each other you'll work it out, good luck.
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