wwmgd Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 My boyfriend and I recently broke up after being together for two years. We were fighting a lot and were unsure if the relationship was right for both of us. During this time we were still talking and telling each other we loved/missed each other. Now he wants to get back together (which I wanted too) BUT he has told me that two weeks into the break up he slept with someone else. Doesn't that seem rather hasty? He had the right to be with another person since we were no longer technically together... but I am just confused as to why he would do this while still telling me he loved me and if he thought there was a chance he may still want to get back together. Advice?
Island Girl Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 I have known people to seek comfort inthe arms of another in confusion and in attempt to get over someone. People CAN have sex without emotional connection - men especially. The two of you are broken up. Right now he is free to do whatever - as are you. If you begin again -- what happened in between should have little to do with it - except the fact that both of you realized you don't want to be apart. Rebuilding isn't easy. You have your own issues to work out. I wouldn't seek to add any from actions done while technically NOT in a relationship.
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