627 Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 sorry been making alot of threads but this particular question is important for me, I have good successes in first impressions, making women laugh etc... problem is the touch barrier thingy, so far no touching lands me in the friend zone more times than I would want. I've seen and I know many guys who really have no problems wrapping their arms around a girl they just met, and just for the heck of it, I can't seem to do that, just feels really weird even with someone I've known forever. and it seems around here, women don't initiate touching it happened before but back then also I didn't know how to respond so again, help besides formal handshaking, what are the simple physical touching thingies that I can do to try and move forward from plain old talking. if a woman touches me onthe arm, what is expected of me?
Ariadne Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 so again, help besides formal handshaking, what are the simple physical touching thingies that I can do to try and move forward from plain old talking. if a woman touches me onthe arm, what is expected of me? You can do the same thing and touch her arm back in the same way she did a few minutes later. Or you can touch her hand when you hand her items. Or you can delicately move her hair out of her face. Or you can place your hand on her lower back as you walk in places.
Isolde Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 627, as I'm also a bit shy, I don't mind if a guy doesn't get touchy on the first meeting. As long as you demonstrate your interest by hugging the girl at the end of the date and asking for a second date, you should be okay.
threebyfate Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Here's something my fiance did, when we were first dating. I touched his arm in conversation, he then took my hand using the excuse that he wanted to get a closer look at my hand, since he found them nice. He didn't let go after that. And yes, we both knew what was going on but enjoyed the contact.
Author 627 Posted October 25, 2009 Author Posted October 25, 2009 627, as I'm also a bit shy, I don't mind if a guy doesn't get touchy on the first meeting. As long as you demonstrate your interest by hugging the girl at the end of the date and asking for a second date, you should be okay. it's not really meetings most of the women I encouter are in my university/class many I've met and talked too many times and they always site next to me etc... and they might like me. and many wouldn't touch me because they are shy or they can't tell what my opinion is(I don't smile alot so I usualy give the impression of an all work no play guy) so I thought maybe touching would help edit: this forum needs a thank you button, I find all the posts in my threads interesting although I cannot comment on everyone seperatly more posts are still welcomed
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