muse08 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 (edited) as i've been reading and searching for answers to various issues i have and people i know have, i've noticed that there are many topics discussed online and elsewhere,e.g. how to get over an ex, how to get rich, how to lose weight,etc. however, as i was reading one thread someone said this: I'd like to see a book that addresses other areas of life such as success in relationships. That's a biggy! this is a simple,yet brilliant statement and i hope you read this MOSH. i hope to see,read about and co-create more solutions for making relationships work! IF WE KNOW THAT RELATIONSHIPS AFFECT ALL PARTS OF LIFE AT SOME POINT, MORE TIME SHOULD BE SPENT TALING ABOUT HOW TO MAKE IT WORK. i guess none of us can predict each incident, but this is the perfect place to give people pointers before the bad things happen. so guys, pls...if there are individuals who have knowledge and experience that can contribute to making relationships work PLEASE POST! if we have more healthy relationships(i didn't say perfect), just healthy, we'll have less domestic violence,less child abuse, less abuse in general, less violence in general...it really does all start in the home. even peer pressure occurs b/c someone else's homelife caused them to take their negetivity out into the environment and bounce chaos off of everyone else... ...if there are individuals who have knowledge and experience that can contribute to making relationships work PLEASE POST! Edited October 24, 2009 by muse08
Author muse08 Posted October 25, 2009 Author Posted October 25, 2009 ok, honesty and feeling free to be who you are could be one thing that makes it work...
mushmush Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 being confident and happy with who you are as a person before you get into a relationship Never say anything in anger or in the heat of the moment. Go for a walk around the block to cool off a bit. Muse, you looking for stuff like this?
Author muse08 Posted October 25, 2009 Author Posted October 25, 2009 being confident and happy with who you are as a person before you get into a relationship Never say anything in anger or in the heat of the moment. Go for a walk around the block to cool off a bit. Muse, you looking for stuff like this? fa sho! what if the walk doesn't help:D thanks mushmush!
Author muse08 Posted October 25, 2009 Author Posted October 25, 2009 not taking the other person for granted!!!!!!!!
BookerT Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 You want to compress what's in about a thousand books into one internet thread?
xpaperxcutx Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 The only way to find success in a relationship is to ask around the people who are married for more than 50 years and ask them for their secret for making their relationship work.
SoulSearch_CO Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 You want to compress what's in about a thousand books into one internet thread? Ha. That's what I was thinking. There are thousands upon thousands of books about how to make relationships work. I'm reading one right now called "Why Men Fall Out Of Love." I haven't experienced this phenomenon, but found an excerpt from the book online when I was looking for something else and it was INTERESTING. So I ordered the book and here I am. I'm all about learning new ways to relate...so when I actually get into a relationship, I have more skills and tools.
Author muse08 Posted October 25, 2009 Author Posted October 25, 2009 You want to compress what's in about a thousand books into one internet thread? ahhhh, yeah. takes too long to read all the books.why not compress. we're all here anyway. makes for easier reading while we're here in L.S. i agree that being in a relationship gives you more insight for the moment."so i'm trying to take a break from the dating scene" is what i've said numerous times, but end up in a relationship sooner than i expect. hopefully the cycle will eventually stop so i can settle down. after i learn enough, that is.
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