I can not attract women.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Sorry, I made this topic before with a different name. The reason why I am making another thread is to get help. People did not take me seriously in my original topic. Some thought I was a troll when I only asked for help. Hopefully now I can get some help.

 

Hello everyone. I am Franklin. I am a 19 year old college student. I have a job on campus. I don't have many problems in my life. Overall I have to say my life is good. I have many friends. I am well respected by my family, friends, classmates, . In high school I was popular and well known. Many people I did not know, knew about me. I am funny and nice. I can easily make people laugh and have a good time. I enjoy playing video games, watching movies, shopping, hanging out with friends, bowling, basketball, football, professional wrestling, etc. I am Brett Favre's number one fan! My favorite food is chicken. My favorite meal is Shrimp Lo Mein with Orange Chicken on top! My favorite drink is rootbeer. I fit in with a lot of social groups, cool kids, jocks, nerds, average, etc. I am far from your well known stereotype person.

 

Everything sound good. Right?

 

I do have one major issue in my life. I can not attract women. I have never been kissed and never had a girlfriend. I am not shy. I am very outgoing as I have already made clear. I am not scare to speak to women. I talk to them everyday. I have asked out a lot of girls on dates. All of them said no. In almost every class I have taken in school(elementary, middle, high, and colledge), every girl in the class was not interested in me.

 

Why aren't women interested in me? Why have all of them rejected me?

 

Every girl who has rejected has said I have too ugly to date. Girls who I did not asked on dates also said that I am the ugliest guy there is date. I am the worst of the worst.(Don't get confused, I am saying their opinions. I am not calling myself ugly).

 

Sometimes when I try to meet a new girl, she gives me a negative facial expression. She makes an ugly face like "hey back off" or "is this guy really trying to talk to me?". I am not hitting on her. I am just trying to have casual conversation.

 

In school girls sometimes like to rate guys. Who is cute, sexy, hot, average, nerdy, or just plain ugly. I always ended up on the ugly rating from every girl.

 

There is some confusion.

 

People often say I am a good looking guy. People at church always say this. My friends and family often say this. At first I am like " hey they are just being nice". However I am often to this by random older people. At church Sunday the pastor spoke up in prayer and made a special prayer for me(he was giving out other prayers). He mention that I am a good looking guy, and a lot people were also saying this(they don't know about my problem with women). When I was younger random people always said I was a good looking kid, and they said it to me more often than every other kid in my classes.

 

I am not black enough?

 

Yes, I am black. I am not your stereotype black person. I do not like nor respect hip hop, rape, and anything that is ghetto. I am not an ass man. I do not dress like the stereotype ghetto person. I do not speak without using my Es and Rs. Is this putting women off? Are they expecting me to be someone I don't want to be?

 

Women want a man that can dress. Right?

 

I have always been I told I am a good dresser. My friends, family, church members, random people, random students, teachers, etc. Some people ask me where did I get that? They love it. They like it. I wear sports appeal, polo shirts, regular blues jeans, black jeans, etc. I do NOT wear any clothes that are made faded nor were made with holes in them. So here is my style.

 

http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RA...nt=nfl_vwt2.jpg

 

http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RA...=p6394632dt.jpg

 

http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RA...=p6394621dt.jpg

 

http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RA...edRATED-RKO.jpg

 

http://media.photobucket.com/image/polo%20...wan/polo/19.jpg

(I wear polos but not this color)

 

So Franklin what do you look like?

 

Oh yes. I have to show pictures to help judge the situation. I am not trying to be arrogant. I am just trying to get help for my problem.

 

http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RA...nt=FRANKLIN.jpg

 

http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RA...rrent=James.jpg

 

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(I was at an amusement park)

 

My ears are a problem.

 

I still hear the "ugliest piece of **** comment from girls on campus. They normally say it behind my back. I know they are talking about me because they sometimes mention my ears. Sometimes girls start to laugh at me when they first look at me. I really want to say something to them, but I don't. I just continue to mind my own business. I do not need any drama in my life.

 

I know my ears are different. I was teased about it early in school by a few kids, but as I got older it rarely happen. Now of days it is either women or a few ghetto stereotypes who talk about my ears, but never to my face.

 

Other then the few people who talk about my ears, I'm very respected by the people I know. I don't have to worry about such comments being said. I just have a good and fun time with my friends.

 

I think the main reason why women don't want to date is because of my ears. I think it puts them off. I've met only one person with similar ears as mine's. Women may not take me serious because of them. I thought about having surgery to fix them, but at the time I wanted someone to accept me. I've stayed strong on that decision. I don't want someone to decide to love me after getting surgery because I was born this way. It would not be true love because I would only get love by changing my body. It's not like I disrespected my body by getting out of shape, and not staying clean.

 

What are my standards?

All of my standards have equal importance. They are not in any particular order.

 

1. She must be a christian. I want someone who has the same religious beliefs as I do.

 

2. She must be slender. I am not attracted to women who are fat. I take care of myself so I would want someone who would do the same for themselves when it comes to weight.

 

3. I would like a girl with big breast. I have a fetish for big breast. I would not overlook a girl with small breast, they can be cute as well. This standard is just a want, not a need. I have asked out women with small breast.

 

4. She must be clean. All I am asking is for a woman to take care of herself. Be nicely groomed.

 

5. She must dress nice. Wear respectable clean clothes.

 

6. We must have good commutation. I believe a good relationship needs good communication.

 

7. She must be outgoing. I never met a shy girl before so I don't know if I would go out with one. I like a girl to be outgoing.

 

I am not attracted to most black girls.

 

I am just not attracted to most black girls. I am not physically attracted to most of them. Most I have met are ghetto stereotypes which is unappealing. I would date a black girl if she is not ghetto. I am not saying all black girls are ghetto, I am saying most I have met are.

Edited October 24, 2009 by RATED-RKOFRANKLIN

[Awesome Username]

TIPS FROM A GIRL!!!

 

See this guy's hair?

 

http://men-haircuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/84700387_10.jpg

 

That should be your hair. Your hair texture may or may not be different, but the point is that it puts some volume on TOP of the head to counteract a little bit of the ears. Will Smith does the same thing: he has protruding ears (his trademark) and when high top cuts were in fashion, he used that to his advantage in the early 90s.

 

I can't speak for all races, but from my experience white women are fascinated by how much creativity and volume that natural black hair can have. The guy with the most game with all races that I've ever seen was actually this gothic black guy with long dreadlocks with pewter beads in some of them that wore eyeliner and looked awesome. I'm not saying that you should go that far, but I would experiment with the hair.

 

ALSO, your glasses are resting too low on the bridge of your nose, making your face looked more scrunched up than it really is. It looks like you should push you glasses up, but really what you should do in the future is have smaller ones. They're rather large glasses, and they need to rest higher on the bridge of the nose.

 

You're tall, thin, fashionable, and have great skin. You have good facial proportions and I think that the tips I gave you will help to bring them out a little more.

 

Rock on and the outfit in pic 2 is completely awesome!

[Pedigree]

Any possibility you can get contacts? If you want transcend stereotypes, ditch the glasses because it makes you look nerdish.

 

Honestly though, don't give up, man. You being outgoing and transcending stereotypes is something to be applauded. In the meantime, if someone rejects you, just imagine yourself giving them a punt kick to the face and you should feel better.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

TIPS FROM A GIRL!!!

 

See this guy's hair?

 

http://men-haircuts.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/06/84700387_10.jpg

 

That should be your hair. Your hair texture may or may not be different, but the point is that it puts some volume on TOP of the head to counteract a little bit of the ears. Will Smith does the same thing: he has protruding ears (his trademark) and when high top cuts were in fashion, he used that to his advantage in the early 90s.

 

I can't speak for all races, but from my experience white women are fascinated by how much creativity and volume that natural black hair can have. The guy with the most game with all races that I've ever seen was actually this gothic black guy with long dreadlocks with pewter beads in some of them that wore eyeliner and looked awesome. I'm not saying that you should go that far, but I would experiment with the hair.

 

ALSO, your glasses are resting too low on the bridge of your nose, making your face looked more scrunched up than it really is. It looks like you should push you glasses up, but really what you should do in the future is have smaller ones. They're rather large glasses, and they need to rest higher on the bridge of the nose.

 

You're tall, thin, fashionable, and have great skin. You have good facial proportions and I think that the tips I gave you will help to bring them out a little more.

 

Rock on and the outfit in pic 2 is completely awesome!

 

I really don't like that hair style, but I might give it a shot. I have tried different haircuts in recent years.

 

Thanks for the advice.

 

Any possibility you can get contacts? If you want transcend stereotypes, ditch the glasses because it makes you look nerdish.

 

Honestly though, don't give up, man. You being outgoing and transcending stereotypes is something to be applauded. In the meantime, if someone rejects you, just imagine yourself giving them a punt kick to the face and you should feel better.

 

I really don't want contacts. My eyes are very sensitive. However early next year I will be getting glasses with shaded lens.

 

Thanks for the advice.

[Island Girl]

I second the hairstyle comment -- it is the first thing that came to mind.

 

We all have our little body flaws. Camouflage them ESPECIALLY if you are really sensitive/self-conscious about them. It will only help to improve your confidence and that helps with all things (most especially women).

 

You say the glasses are a must - I'm not so sure they'd have to go anyway. I totally dig glasses as an accessory.

Experiment with some different frames though. I know plenty of men who can pull off more of a horn rimmed glasses look. They make a statement and look intellectual but also very cool.

 

You have style - the way you dress is great. So you have a lot going for you. And just an observation as you get older you'll fill out. Most men who are lean like you are end up pretty built in their late 20's early 30's.

It is well known that men generally get more attractive as they get older.

[Shygirl15]

Okay.

 

Frankly I wouldn't go out with you if you asked me for a date. Your looks are kinda so-so, if not below that. Physical attraction is very important to most people.

 

However.

 

I have always believed there's someone out there for EVERYONE. So. Don't give up. Keep on searching and very soon you'll find someone who will love you for who YOU are.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I second the hairstyle comment -- it is the first thing that came to mind.

 

We all have our little body flaws. Camouflage them ESPECIALLY if you are really sensitive/self-conscious about them. It will only help to improve your confidence and that helps with all things (most especially women).

 

You say the glasses are a must - I'm not so sure they'd have to go anyway. I totally dig glasses as an accessory.

Experiment with some different frames though. I know plenty of men who can pull off more of a horn rimmed glasses look. They make a statement and look intellectual but also very cool.

 

You have style - the way you dress is great. So you have a lot going for you. And just an observation as you get older you'll fill out. Most men who are lean like you are end up pretty built in their late 20's early 30's.

It is well known that men generally get more attractive as they get older.

 

I am not self-conscious about me ears(I am not saying you said that). I don't have confidence problems. I have been working out for over a year now. I still don't have much muscle.

 

Thanks for the response.

 

Okay.

 

Frankly I wouldn't go out with you if you asked me for a date. Your looks are kinda so-so, if not below that. Physical attraction is very important to most people.

 

However.

 

I have always believed there's someone out there for EVERYONE. So. Don't give up. Keep on searching and very soon you'll find someone who will love you for who YOU are.

 

I get this from every girl I have known. Girls I have asked out and girls who I did not ask out. Every girl has said that my looks are awful, and I am the worst to get. I am not whining about it I am just stating the facts.

 

Thanks for the response.

[ADF]

RKOFRANKLIN,

 

You said you're only 19. I am 40. Let me share a bit of wisdom you may not have gathered yet in yout short life. WOMEN DON'T OWE IT TO YOU TO LIKE YOU. It doesn't matter how great you think you are, what a nice guy you are, how deserving of companionship you feel. You are not entitled to a GF. No one is.

 

Now that we've got that sorted, I think you have another problem. Based on your post, you come accross as judgmental, self-important, and controlling. You go on and on and on about how wonderful you are. You post pics of yourself to prove it. You think you deserve a slender, large-breasted, outgoing, well-dressed, pious woman. Worst of all, you dismiss the majority of black women as "too ghetto" for your highly refined taste.

 

In short, you come across as a jerk. Maybe that is your problem.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

RKOFRANKLIN,

 

You said you're only 19. I am 40. Let me share a bit of wisdom you may not have gathered yet in yout short life. WOMEN DON'T OWE IT TO YOU TO LIKE YOU. It doesn't matter how great you think you are, what a nice guy you are, how deserving of companionship you feel. You are not entitled to a GF. No one is.

 

Now that we've got that sorted, I think you have another problem. Based on your post, you come accross as judgmental, self-important, and controlling. You go on and on and on about how wonderful you are. You post pics of yourself to prove it. You think you deserve a slender, large-breasted, outgoing, well-dressed, pious woman. Worst of all, you dismiss the majority of black women as "too ghetto" for your highly refined taste.

 

In short, you come across as a jerk. Maybe that is your problem.

 

I am actually 20. Sorry for the typo. I never said women owe anything to me. All I am asking for is help to attract women. I would like some girls to like me. I am not expecting every girl to find me attractive. It use to hurt me when I heard from girls I am too ugly to be loved. Those comments do not hurt me anymore because I am a stronger person than what I use to be in this area of my life.

 

I posted pictures of myself to show people who I am. Every girl I have known in school say I am the worst looking guy to get, and it is the main reason why they won't date me. I would like as much help as possible. People can not know what the girls see very unattractive about me unless they see me.

 

I am not saying a girl has to be the best dressed. I just want her to wear clean clothes. Being clean is a need.

 

I will only date a girl who is not fat. I would not give a fat girl the time of day. Sorry, I know it sounds harsh. I keep myself fit. I take care of myself. I expect the same from a girl to take care of herself.

 

I did not say the woman must have large breast. I never overlook girls with small breast because they can be great people. It is a want, not a need. I have asked out a lot of girls who have small breast.

 

I did not say all black women are ghetto. I said most of the black girls I have met are ghetto. I get to know the person before I judge them.

[ADF]

Well, FRANKLIN, if I am totally off, then I cannot imagine why you cannot attract someone. Again, I don't know you. The way you present yourself in your post is all I have to go on.

 

You list of requirements is long and includes some fairly trivial things. If you are going to reject people out of hand because their breasts aren't large enough or they don't go to church or they don't dress well enough, you're going to have a very tough time finding someone.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Well, FRANKLIN, if I am totally off, then I cannot imagine why you cannot attract someone. Again, I don't know you. The way you present yourself in your post is all I have to go on.

 

You list of requirements is long and includes some fairly trivial things. If you are going to reject people out of hand because their breasts aren't large enough or they don't go to church or they don't dress well enough, you're going to have a very tough time finding someone.

 

Did you honestly read my post? I never said I would reject a girl because of her breast size. I am only asking a girl to wear clean clothes. What is your problem with that?

 

I am Christian. I want someone with the same religion. I go to a Baptist church but I would date girls who go to other type of churches.

[ADF]

Yes, I honestly read your post. What I am trying to get across is that your post suggests things about your personality that go beyond what you actually say. I mean, you can say, "I never said that" all you like. But the way you present yourself still leaves an impression, regardless of the specific words. Just the LENGTH of your post suggests a person a bit full of himself. That's what I mean when I talk about leaving an impression.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Yes, I honestly read your post. What I am trying to get across is that your post suggests things about your personality that go beyond what you actually say. I mean, you can say, "I never said that" all you like. But the way you present yourself still leaves an impression, regardless of the specific words. Just the LENGTH of your post suggests a person a bit full of himself. That's what I mean when I talk about leaving an impression.

 

Yes, my post is very lengthy. I wanted to give as much details as possible to receive help. I told people about myself and shown my picture because looks and personality is part of attraction. Women don't find my attractive so I had to give information about myself for the entire problem can be judged.

 

A length of a post does not mean a person if full of himself. It means this person is giving as much information as possible. I did not want to only say "Women think I am too ugly, please help". That is not giving enough information on the issue at hand.

[ADF]

Okay, FRANKLIN. If you think everything is just fine and you are doing everything right, then I guess I don't know how to help.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

Okay, FRANKLIN. If you think everything is just fine and you are doing everything right, then I guess I don't know how to help.

 

I am not successful in this area of my life so I must be doing something wrong or women are correct and I am just too unattractive.

[dell00]

hello.

 

Looks:

Its pretty clear that your not brad pitt or will smith; but I wouldn't classify you as ugly. Ugly is repulsive, and i think that should be reserved for a whole different level of looks. You could come across as a bit nerdy with the glasses, current hair and tie/coat combo (if you wear that too often, but you've said you wear diff stuff so thats ok).

 

Listen to the pretty lady with the awesome username and to island girl (and to pedigree for the mental punt kick).

 

Change your hairstyle, i think it could do a world of difference to your overall look. You don't look too bad with the hotdog on your head in pic 3, because it adds, i dunno, mass(??) to the top of your head. Lots of people use their hair (shorter or longer) to cover up their head shape and ears. No harm.

 

I think there are some sites or programs that let you experiment with pics and hairstyles, try them out and you could even show them to someone who you are genuinely comfortable with and get their advice on a look.

 

You could also change your glasses, that may work too.

 

Consider developing your physique for the standard stuff if you feel thats lacking (broad shoulders in relation to your waist, not skinny arms, no pencil neck).

 

I wouldn't consider going out with you either, but thats because im a straight guy.

 

Friends and Family:

They will always say you are nice and sweet and what not --- unless you are a total d*ck to them. Also they see you a lot, so their familiarity with your face is different to that of the person you describe as the "new girl".

 

Standards and no attrraction to black women:

Most of them are reasonable, but the boob thing and the cleanliness thing.

I dont know how the boob thing is relevant is to your dating life rejections (unless you specify that to your dates, which would be awkward).

The cleanliness thing, ive never met any girl socially or at work who is not clean or doesnt wear clean clothes, so i cant relate.

 

Maybe you are going overboard with the slender and fat distinction. Theres loads in between, maybe you should aim for that.

 

What im basically trying to say is that if you are only hitting on the new on the scene, but popular, fashionable, white, potential bikini models at school or social occasions....well, you know your strike rate on that.

 

On a closing note, and i don't intent to dampen your confidence; but you should consider if you are a bit too overconfident and in your face about yourself and your personality. I don't know if you are, but some parts of your post suggest this. Apologies if this offends you.

 

BTW, odds are that you will find someone eventually and while she wont match all your standards she will be a fit; i hope its sooner rather than later.

At your age, looks will occupy a good chunk of the decision to date/not date. This will change as you and your potential dates age and seek different things from partners (it wont go away unless you are filthy filthy rich, but it will come down in weightage as a factor).

 

G'luck and keep your confidence up. You've said you have a great life apart from this, enjoy those things until this one element gets sorted out.

[Disillusioned]

Franklin,

Why worry about it??? When I got tired of all the rejection, I bought my Realdoll. It was a decision I never regretted.

 

Now when some woman starts asking me why I never got married, never fathered a couple of retards, etc etc, I just start telling her about my Realdoll. It's pretty damn funny to watch these women get all flustered and defensive... but hey, they did it to themselves by withholding love and I don't feel sorry for them.

[gypsy_nicky]

your actually average but you play down your looks.

 

About the ears, you could either get them surgically modified to not stick out or you could use your hair. Grow somewhat of a short afro or I think dreadlocks would be even better.

 

Lose the glasses or choose one that does not look nerdy on you. Doesnt matter what style but it has to look good on you.

[Ross PK]

Franklin,

Why worry about it??? When I got tired of all the rejection, I bought my Realdoll. It was a decision I never regretted.

 

Now when some woman starts asking me why I never got married, never fathered a couple of retards, etc etc, I just start telling her about my Realdoll. It's pretty damn funny to watch these women get all flustered and defensive... but hey, they did it to themselves by withholding love and I don't feel sorry for them.

 

Love your post. Awsome.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

hello.

 

Looks:

Its pretty clear that your not brad pitt or will smith; but I wouldn't classify you as ugly. Ugly is repulsive, and i think that should be reserved for a whole different level of looks. You could come across as a bit nerdy with the glasses, current hair and tie/coat combo (if you wear that too often, but you've said you wear diff stuff so thats ok).

 

Listen to the pretty lady with the awesome username and to island girl (and to pedigree for the mental punt kick).

 

Change your hairstyle, i think it could do a world of difference to your overall look. You don't look too bad with the hotdog on your head in pic 3, because it adds, i dunno, mass(??) to the top of your head. Lots of people use their hair (shorter or longer) to cover up their head shape and ears. No harm.

 

I think there are some sites or programs that let you experiment with pics and hairstyles, try them out and you could even show them to someone who you are genuinely comfortable with and get their advice on a look.

 

You could also change your glasses, that may work too.

 

Consider developing your physique for the standard stuff if you feel thats lacking (broad shoulders in relation to your waist, not skinny arms, no pencil neck).

 

I wouldn't consider going out with you either, but thats because im a straight guy.

 

Friends and Family:

They will always say you are nice and sweet and what not --- unless you are a total d*ck to them. Also they see you a lot, so their familiarity with your face is different to that of the person you describe as the "new girl".

 

Standards and no attrraction to black women:

Most of them are reasonable, but the boob thing and the cleanliness thing.

I dont know how the boob thing is relevant is to your dating life rejections (unless you specify that to your dates, which would be awkward).

The cleanliness thing, ive never met any girl socially or at work who is not clean or doesnt wear clean clothes, so i cant relate.

 

Maybe you are going overboard with the slender and fat distinction. Theres loads in between, maybe you should aim for that.

 

What im basically trying to say is that if you are only hitting on the new on the scene, but popular, fashionable, white, potential bikini models at school or social occasions....well, you know your strike rate on that.

 

On a closing note, and i don't intent to dampen your confidence; but you should consider if you are a bit too overconfident and in your face about yourself and your personality. I don't know if you are, but some parts of your post suggest this. Apologies if this offends you.

 

BTW, odds are that you will find someone eventually and while she wont match all your standards she will be a fit; i hope its sooner rather than later.

At your age, looks will occupy a good chunk of the decision to date/not date. This will change as you and your potential dates age and seek different things from partners (it wont go away unless you are filthy filthy rich, but it will come down in weightage as a factor).

 

G'luck and keep your confidence up. You've said you have a great life apart from this, enjoy those things until this one element gets sorted out.

 

I don't wear suits everyday. I only wear sites at funerals, church, weddings, etc. My picture in the brown suit is my senior picture two years ago. The green suit was for homecoming in high school two years ago.

 

I will be getting new glasses soon.

 

I don't reject women base on their breast size. I have seen girls who are not clean in public, and I will not give them the time of day. The girl can not be fat. I am in shape and take of myself so I expect the same from her.

 

Thanks for the response

 

your actually average but you play down your looks.

 

About the ears, you could either get them surgically modified to not stick out or you could use your hair. Grow somewhat of a short afro or I think dreadlocks would be even better.

 

Lose the glasses or choose one that does not look nerdy on you. Doesnt matter what style but it has to look good on you.

 

I will not get surgery for my ears. I want someone to love me for who I am. If she can not accept me now then she does not truly love me.

 

Thanks for the response

[betamanlet]

Franklin,

Why worry about it??? When I got tired of all the rejection, I bought my Realdoll. It was a decision I never regretted.

 

Now when some woman starts asking me why I never got married, never fathered a couple of retards, etc etc, I just start telling her about my Realdoll. It's pretty damn funny to watch these women get all flustered and defensive... but hey, they did it to themselves by withholding love and I don't feel sorry for them.

 

 

I hope you're trolling about the realdoll.

[limitless]

OK I am a guy and here are my tips. You said you have sensitive eyes but I definitely still recommend contacts. Get over it and wear some contacts at least once in a while. Or wear them when you go out. And yah you need glasses that fit you. It sits way too low and too big.

 

As for what you wear, your suit is way too baggy. I am assuming some of your other cloths will fit like that as well. You need cloths that fit. As in the seam of the shirt sits right on the corner bone of your shoulder. Your pants also need to fit better. You look like a skinny guy and wearing baggy cloths does not help you. It makes you look less confident and less stylish. When I say fit I do not necessarily mean tight like skinny jeans and some skin tight t-shirt. The key is that it fits and not baggy.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

OK I am a guy and here are my tips. You said you have sensitive eyes but I definitely still recommend contacts. Get over it and wear some contacts at least once in a while. Or wear them when you go out. And yah you need glasses that fit you. It sits way too low and too big.

 

As for what you wear, your suit is way too baggy. I am assuming some of your other cloths will fit like that as well. You need cloths that fit. As in the seam of the shirt sits right on the corner bone of your shoulder. Your pants also need to fit better. You look like a skinny guy and wearing baggy cloths does not help you. It makes you look less confident and less stylish. When I say fit I do not necessarily mean tight like skinny jeans and some skin tight t-shirt. The key is that it fits and not baggy.

 

My glasses are not low on my face. My glasses are up on my nose. I can not wear contacts. My eyes are way too sensitive. I am not going to wear something that will give me pain. What picture are you looking at? I no longer have the glasses in the picture where I am wearing a brown suit. My current glasses are the pair with my green suit.

 

Excuse you. My clothes are not baggy. My clothes fit on my body.

[limitless]

I am just trying to help but if you disagree with me that's fine.

 

In the first two pictures with you in a suit, you have glasses on. Your eyes are at the top edge of the lens almost in line with the top frame. This means your glasses sit too low. Your eyes should be closer to the center of the lens. You can simply fix this problem by going to the eye doctor and tell them you want it sit higher. The glasses are almost literally resting on your nostrils. You can search online and look at images of people wearing glasses. First it should not sit on your nostril and second the eye should not be so close to the top edge of the lens.

 

For the same two photos of you in suits, your suit just looks like it is sagging on the shoulder. That's why I said it was baggy. It looks too big for you. You can also search online on suits and see how other people wear them.

[RATED-RKOFRANKLIN]

I am just trying to help but if you disagree with me that's fine.

 

In the first two pictures with you in a suit, you have glasses on. Your eyes are at the top edge of the lens almost in line with the top frame. This means your glasses sit too low. Your eyes should be closer to the center of the lens. You can simply fix this problem by going to the eye doctor and tell them you want it sit higher. The glasses are almost literally resting on your nostrils. You can search online and look at images of people wearing glasses. First it should not sit on your nostril and second the eye should not be so close to the top edge of the lens.

 

For the same two photos of you in suits, your suit just looks like it is sagging on the shoulder. That's why I said it was baggy. It looks too big for you. You can also search online on suits and see how other people wear them.

 

Sorry about getting upset about the glasses. You are right my glasses were way too low in the picture, I should have pushed them up. Here is a more recenty picture of me with my current pair on. My eyes are in the center of the frame. http://s210.photobucket.com/albums/bb31/RATED-RKO_2007/Franklin/?action=view&current=LastScan.jpg

 

My clothes are baggy. My clothes are the right size. My suits are not sagging on the shoulder.