saddy Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 I guess I should start from the beginning. About 2 years ago, I moved to the US with my 5 years girlfriend and new wife (we had to get married so that I could get a visa). Anyway, the beginning was hard for me when she seemed to enjoy her time. She began to stay later and later at work, to go to corporate parties and finally she broke up with me because of another guy (and I learned very recently that she actually moved in with him right after breaking up with me...great! She must have had fun while I was feeling desperate!) I felt completely devastated but I decided to stay here. I must say that I only have a few friends left back home and that was part of my decision to stay. I also began a therapy. We didn't divorce so that I could stay here, since my visa is only valid as long as I'm married with her. After touching the bottom of depression, I met a girl. It's been 6 months already. Since I had a good reason to stay, I looked for a new job that would eventually sponsor me for a work visa. At that time, my wife began to say that she wanted to go back to her familly. I felt in a hurry: very stressed, all the time, since the job market was really bad. I finally found a company that said they might sponsor me after a probation. So I switched job, telling her that I would get a visa next year in June. I just received news from her. Now she says that she wants to go back before I get my visa. What am I gonna do? I know that it's hard for her now and that she's feeling depressed (now it's her turn). I never wanted to put her in that situation and I would be more than happy if I could find a way to stay earlier... but I just haven't... And now I feel like she's stabbing me a second time! I asked again today if my new employer would sponsor me, before even completing the probation. Now I'm waiting for the answer... but even if it's yes, I may still not have enough time to get it... I feel desperate again... I don't know what I'm gonna do...
Gunny376 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Inhale! Exhale! Take a deep breath~ It will be OK! It will all work out!
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