janelless Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 So i have a little dilemma... I happen to like one of my guy friends.. and i have for a while.. starting last spring and over the summer. We are both now starting our junior year in highschool. He liked me at the beginning of the summer.. apparently. Without my knowledge, A few of my friends, when they asked him if he was interested in anyone, he admitted he liked me.. as more than a friend, and they told him i felt the same (because i told them in private that i was interested in him before i knew he liked me). These friends were not supposed to tell me these details but they did anyways and now these friends are trying to play matchmaker because they want to see two friends start to date. Over the summer we got to know each other more.. but i also gone several weeks of the summer, almost half actually.. and then at the end of the summer i got injured where i was stuck in a bed for six weeks. It kind of sucked because i couldnt see this guy at all. The summer was really great, we got to know each other, flirted, got closer and i could tell that something was different between the way we acted around each other. Even today, all of my feelings were verified becuase he acted the same, very interested in me, giving me special attention and a charming smile he doesnt give other girls No matter what he can always make me smile.. when we start to talk we automatically flirt .. we cant resist each other. Also, when i talk about getting closer and flirting and everything, it is all verbal. We are both COMPLETELY new to anything involving relationships. Neither of us have put ourselves out there to anyone.. we havent touched each other romantically or kissed... actually we havent done that with anybody ever. We are both considered friends but we both tell we are something more... MAINLY..what i am asking about is what do i do.. he is pretty shy and i really want him to make a move.. but i think he is scared too.. I mean I could make a move, but since he is shy i am afraid to scare him off... i dont want to loose a friend. Or do i take things slow and try to get to know him (which is sometimes kinda hard) I just want some suggestions of what the next step is cause i think we are ready to move forward. Keep in mind i will be going to a halloween party where he will be next weekend. also in a month my school will be having a semiformal that i could mabye ask him to.. or make a move there.. i dont know.. any ideas:love: man i just want him to make a move, even something as small as trying to hold my hand or arm around me.. just so shy...
boogieboy Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 So youre shy as well cuz you want HIM to make the move eh? Well obviously if he isnt making a move, then you arent flirting enough to make him comfortable enough to make the move. Lean in closer, do somethng. Dont just sit there and expect him to do all the work. You can go ahead and kiss him and it wont scare him off. But if you keep waiting youre going to ruin everything and then you cant be friends after that. YHe will open up to you after the first kiss. But dont wait until youre not attracted anymore, Im sure he likes you and he will keep hanging around after you lose interest. So make a move before you lose interest. Hurry up! lean in and kiss him, help a brotha out!
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