MalachiX Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Ok, need help fast. I finally took yet another stab and decided to try dating again. There was a cute girl who worked at a casino coffee shop I sometimes go to when I'm working late and need to get out. I had been hesitant since she'd about six years my junior (25 vs 19) but I remember a friend telling me to take more risks and not think of everything as life or death. She was also coming on pretty strong and seemed cute (if a bit niave). So I ask her out and am told the following things shortly there after: 1. She has a daughter about to be three years old. 2. She has become a born again christian. 3. Three weeks ago she decided to swear off all sexuality untill marriage. 4. She's only looking for a future husband. Despite that I mentioned I was probably moving in a few months (which is true), she still wants me to come to church with her. She seems like a really sweet kid so is there a nice way to say that I don't want to lead her on when I have no intention of being a father, sticking around, or being in a non-sexual relationship? Is there a way I can do this without making this single Mom who has a lot on her plate feel bad about herself? Oh, AND WHY DO ATTRACTIVE WOMEN ONLY COME ON TO ME WHEN THEY'VE DECIDED THEY'RE DONE WITH CASUAL SEX!!!!
boogieboy Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Youre not going to get what you want from this one, leave her alone. Dont tell her anything, just dont flirt back with her anymore. Cancel the date. She is already imposing church marriage and so on. She was burned by her last bf that knocked her up, shes too confused. LEave this one alone. And stop sitting around waiting for them to come to you, be a man and go out and GET what you want.
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