ohlala147 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Guys, I need help. I'm having the weirdest problem! Bear with me and I'll explain why this needs to be in second chances. The love of my life, the one that got away, just came back into town for a two week visit, on other business. This is something we in the breakup chat rooms only DREAM about. All the time people wish that that one person would come back and be interested in them again. He broke it off about 4 years ago. For the longest time I did not get over it. Years. Then, as if he sensed that his hold over me was broken, he calls me out of the blue and says he's coming to town on other business and he'd like to reconnect. So I saw him, and he was just as devastatingly handsome as he was so long ago. He ended up staying with me. The sex was incredible. Of course, I wish we had resumed our relationship like before, but that hasn't happened. Part of its me, I've been acting super platonic, because I really really don't want to get hurt again and my sense is that it won't work out long-term. It's not what I want, but I'm trying to appreciate the visit for what it was. Hey, all those other dumpees would die to be in my place now! However, what I'm saying is completely against my emotional instinct. I truly believe he is the love of my life. BUT. this is not my primary concern! My primary concern is that ever since he left, it's like I'm DEAD below the waist. My vajj is broken! Now, I have an extremely strong sex drive. I want it all the time. And I haven't had a pleasurable orgasm since he left. I have orgasms, but I feel nothing. This is disturbing! I can only assume these two events are connected. Help me! What's going on? And is it going to go away? Will I ever feel pleasure again? HELP
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