Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 24, 2009 Author Posted October 24, 2009 How is this women not being physically attractive have anything to do with this story?! . Isn't that obvious? People can understand screwing around with a desirable woman, but I don't think anyone can figure out what in god's name he saw in that troll. It's mind boggling.
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 24, 2009 Author Posted October 24, 2009 Totally agree. Her appearance has little to do with the standards of humanity they both showed. She is so over the edge contacting his son and using him. It brings back so many angry feelings about my situation. KIDS should not have to deal with this crap! Agree. I have ZERO sympathy for that woman. I think she should be fired too.
Lucky_One Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Man, what a trainwreck. His prior mistress (the one who sued him for sexual harassment) isn't all that good looking, either. What a jerk. And the OW seems certifiable. I am glad the BS is hiring some off-duty cops to watch over the house and her kids - that would FREAK me out in a large way.
eeyore1981 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 IMO, this guy should man up, give up all rights to his children, and spend the rest of his life with his skank ho. He's the one who couldn't keep it in his pants, and now his family not only gets to feel the hurt of his betrayal, they are actually in danger from psycho chick he had to pork. Yep, he should take her back, that way she is no longer focused on his family, and he should stay with her until they throw dirt in his face, that way he can suffer for his own actions, like he has made his family suffer for his actions. (Just venting. My H got involved with a little psycho of his own, and probably the reason it didn't escalate like this situation is because I'm a little psycho myself. The stories I was told about OW when this all came out would have been scary had I not been on a rampage. )
Fallen Angel Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 maybe she is not as big a nut job as she appears to be right now... look at all the publicity.. imagine the book deals, the paid television appearances, the LifeTime Movie Of The Week deals to be had!!... Now only if she is as smart as Monica Lewinsky (the number one google suggestion if you start typing in Monica).. and kept a sample on a dress.... hmmm.. maybe she could strike a deal with one of the cosmetic companies.. you know, a whole make over kinda thing like Monica and her Jenny Craig thing....
tami-chan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Obviously, the best way is NEVER to cheat. However, if you MUST, cheat with somebody who has something to lose (or believes she/he has something to lose, bigtime)....jesus h. christ..i mean, this guy.... Have an affair with someone you are willing to lose everything for, too....otherwise, zip it up! Why is her looks relevant? er..the thread is about "thinking about having an affair"....of course looks should be considered....what in the world...
LucreziaBorgia Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 I read this story too. That girl is completely screwed in the head. Sort of makes you wonder what the appeal was in the first place, or how they ended up together and who made the first actual move?
NoIDidn't Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 I, too, am a little confused as to why her looks matter after what she has done? But she does look more like a boy than a woman. Just makes me think maybe he had plastic surgery and before the surgery she was right up his alley anyway? LOL Who knows? I remember my dad cheating with some dogfaces as well. He used to tell me "Pu**y doesn't have a face". Must be the case here as well. Good for his W to leave him finally. I wonderl what incurable diseases he already gave her? That 16 year old must be kicking himself. Just another reason I won't be allowing my kids to put their computers in their bedrooms or anyplace else I can't easily monitor.
RedDevil66 Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 Obviously, the best way is NEVER to cheat. However, if you MUST, cheat with somebody who has something to lose (or believes she/he has something to lose, bigtime)....jesus h. christ..i mean, this guy.... Have an affair with someone you are willing to lose everything for, too....otherwise, zip it up! Why is her looks relevant? er..the thread is about "thinking about having an affair"....of course looks should be considered....what in the world...:confused: that's your explaination why looks are relevent? Right, what is the world! He's the troll, outside apprears means SH*T to this story! nuts I tell ya
tami-chan Posted October 25, 2009 Posted October 25, 2009 that's your explaination why looks are relevent? Right, what is the world! He's the troll, outside apprears means SH*T to this story! nuts I tell ya nono, this thread is NOT about this story per se.....this thread is about if you are thinking about having an affair(did you read the title?)...this story COULD happen to you.... I am saying, if you are thinking of an affair...lessen the probability of this happening...find someone who will not be desperate-gorgeous, successful, financially stable women will less likely be bunny boilers(barring psych disorders)-now I am NOT saying NEVER...I am saying less likely...
NoIDidn't Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 There was a comment on the link to the story that was really funny. Seems someone reads the boards where this woman would have likely posted if she knew about them. He called the posters, and the woman, amateurs because of the crazy thoughts and behaviors they seem to exhibit. I wonder how many MM read those boards to figure out what their OW are thinking and feeling? Makes me shudder to think of a guy doing that kind of "research" to use it in an affair. I guess it could be like the title of this thread implies - reading there (as a potential MM) could make one think twice before doing so.
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 It looks like both of them got canned from their jobs. Thank god ESPN finally made a good decision.
angie2443 Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 He is a good looking minor celebrity. . He is not good looking, he's old. He's old, grey haired and wrinkly. If he didn't have the money and fame he has, no normal headed young woman would give him the time of day. I could see where he'd be attractive to women his age. To a twenty year old? She'd have to be messed up in the head to get with him.
Fallen Angel Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 It looks like both of them got canned from their jobs. Thank god ESPN finally made a good decision. Though they could have been kind to his wife and waited until AFTER the courts had set child support and alimony payments to fire him...
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 I' date=' too, am a little confused as to why her looks matter after what she has done? [/quote'] That's just it, what many OW don't understand. Looks don't matter, brains don't matter, personality doesn't matter, age doesn't matter, none of that matters when a MM wants to get his rocks off in a parking lot. All that mattered is that she spread her legs when any respectable, intelligent woman would have told him to pound sand, and he thought she would keep her mouth shut. Hell hath no fury...
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 Though they could have been kind to his wife and waited until AFTER the courts had set child support and alimony payments to fire him... She'll be okay, hopefully she'll get the rights to the Lifetime movie. You don't have sex with subordinates at work, PERIOD. He deserved to be fired and so did the tramp. She thought she was going to advance in her career by sleeping with him? I'd say she learned a good lesson.
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 He is not good looking, he's old. He's old, grey haired and wrinkly. If he didn't have the money and fame he has, no normal headed young woman would give him the time of day. I could see where he'd be attractive to women his age. To a twenty year old? She'd have to be messed up in the head to get with him. I think he's good looking. A complete dog but handsome nonetheless. There is no doubt that the tramp is messed up in the head. I hope she gets professional help, she needs it.
GorillaTheater Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 I understand the arguments that her looks are irrelevant, but I hope that if I put my marriage, my wife and kids, the rest of my family, my career, my future, and possibly my life at stake: That I'd at least do it for someone I could look at in the morning without considering gnawing my arm off.
Fallen Angel Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 That's just it, what many OW don't understand. Looks don't matter, brains don't matter, personality doesn't matter, age doesn't matter, none of that matters when a MM wants to get his rocks off in a parking lot. All that mattered is that she spread her legs when any respectable, intelligent woman would have told him to pound sand, and he thought she would keep her mouth shut. Hell hath no fury... That is not true of ALL OW/MM situations. At least I would like to think not. *sigh*
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 27, 2009 Author Posted October 27, 2009 That is not true of ALL OW/MM situations. At least I would like to think not. *sigh* Oh but it is...in almost all of them. Don't kid yourself.
Snowflower Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Oh but it is...in almost all of them. Don't kid yourself. Well it was in THIS case certainly. Looks may be irrelevant, but the 'girl' in the ESPN case was certainly unattractive both on the outside and on the inside, as shown by her actions...following the 16 year old...sheesh. Scary, ugly actions.
tami-chan Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 I agree with snowflower, certainly, in this case, "looks" did not matter...but that's more reflective of the cheater's er...'taste', or "choice" or "preference"... Impudent Oyster, I am not familiar with your story, but did your spouse cheat on you with someone who is ugly?
Leia Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 I didn't read this whole thread but clicked on the link. She looks like a man!
Fallen Angel Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Oh but it is...in almost all of them. Don't kid yourself. Well, I guess then even though I am ugly, stupid, a bore, and old.. I still have hope of getting a little somethin' somethin' .. UGH.. Gee Thanks, I feel so much better now.
NoIDidn't Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 Well, I guess then even though I am ugly, stupid, a bore, and old.. I still have hope of getting a little somethin' somethin' .. UGH.. Gee Thanks, I feel so much better now. I don't know if you meant this to be funny or not, but it made me giggle. I hope that when I am all the things you mention above that somebody still wants to bump uglies with me too.
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