Impudent Oyster Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 You might want to read this first. Anyone considering cheating on their spouse needs to click on every link. Tell me the things this OW wrote in her letter to his wife don't sound just like most of the posts from OW here on LS? Pay attention to the OW's letter and the MM's statement. Talk about delusional. http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/affair_is_foul_for_espn_star_bLw9UoSAQJwJLU4ZDXvvDO
stuckinoz Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 I figured this would wind up here sooner or later. My take on it.......First - Brooke Hunly, looks as if she's been beat with an ugly stick, extremely immature & coo-coo for coco puffs!!! (I think she's boiled a few bunnies in her day) Steve - Idiot!! The guy's kinda hot. Great Job. Good Family. You would think he could keep his wammer in his pants. Apparently being in a high profile position entitles some people. Wife - Feel sorry for her & hope she gets what she deserves. Kids - Man - can't even say how I hope that they don't end up in therapy for the rest of their lives over this one.
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 23, 2009 Author Posted October 23, 2009 I've got to agree with all of your points, but what really struck me (especially having been reading infidelity boards for years), is how very familiar the prose of that letter was that the troll wrote. The things she was saying sound just like what OW post DAILY about their affairs. She claims could make the cretin happier than his wife could after three f*cks in a parking lot?
JohnP82 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 First I think cheaters are pretty much scum. Second and on a lighter note, wow! I think he could have done a lot better.
Snowflower Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 My take on it.......First - Brooke Hunly, looks as if she's been beat with an ugly stick, extremely immature & coo-coo for coco puffs!!! (I think she's boiled a few bunnies in her day) Steve - Idiot!! The guy's kinda hot. I was thinking the exact same thing but didn't want to appear snarky...but what WAS he thinking? Not that it mattered if Brooke was drop-dead gorgeous it was still wrong but c'mon...let's be realistic...like he would take up with her. The things she was saying sound just like what OW post DAILY about their affairs. She claims could make the cretin happier than his wife could after three f*cks in a parking lot? It does sound a lot like some of the posts here. I know...why is it the OW always thinks she knows her MM so well and so much better than the wife? I know, I know, in some cases yes, there is some history and a sense of shared connection between the MM/OW. But after such a brief amount of time in this case? Puh-lease!
JumpinJimmy Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Yea, I thought about one for 30 seconds 6 weeks ago. No thanks. BTW, ewwww....that production assistant looks like a man...and they say that only women cheat down.
PhoenixRise Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 I saw this story.. Frankly Steve and his family came out of this very lucky. There was a story posted here and widely reported in the national news about an OW who killed her Pro Football player MM. Bottom line. This man put his family at terrible risk just to dip his dic* in some strange. I feel bad for the wife and I feel even worse for the child who was stalked by this woman for weeks while she gathered info on the family.
NoIDidn't Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Since most affairs don't end this dramatically, I doubt this incident will dissuade anyone from engaging in one. But, yes, this woman does sound a lot like several of the posters in the other forum. They seem to just *know* they are the better choice for him and have to let everyone else know it. Its almost always a shock to find out that the MM doesn't feel the way they posting he did. Its a shame too. Most of them aren't the bunny boiling type, just come off as very vulnerable and naive. This woman just comes off as crazy. I mean, seriously?! Stalking a 16-year-old is low.
bentnotbroken Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Since ow in my case contacted my kid, I felt threatened and feared it would get to this extreme. Her mind set is something that I can't comprehend.
datura_noir Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 But you know, his wife was probably dead set against sex from the get go, despite the 4 kids and even though he is the most passionate and fantastic lover; and he probably is only wanting to stay for the kids and finances. And she is only divorcing him for the money and assets. How rude of her! After all, he is the breadwinner-and she is only a wife/mother. Can't she do something productive with her life and let her husband be with his true love? Why can't she just be happy and husbandless and realize her true potential??? Sigh....I just don't get it..... Good forthe wife for dumping him BTW!!!!
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 24, 2009 Author Posted October 24, 2009 Since most affairs don't end this dramatically, I doubt this incident will dissuade anyone from engaging in one. No, most don't end this dramatically, most OW aren't quite this insane, but as a BW who also had a child who was used in the OW's desperate attempts to stalk my family, who had someone call my house to tell me that my H was "f*cking OW every chance he could" (coincidentely the next day AFTER he dumped her), and who received emails of the OW from an "anonymous" person in the mail (claimed they were the IT person at my husbands company, what a crock), of their "relationship" as it were, I know damn well that this psycho is not unique in her delusion or in the lengths some women will go to try and break up a marriage. Brooke Hundley took it to an extreme, but plenty of BS's and betrayed family's have been on the receiving end of someone's delusional fantasy coming to a grinding halt.
tami-chan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Lesson for all MMs thinking of having an affair: You want to make sure your prospective OW is gorgeous, smart, financially independent. You do not want anybody desperate. Desperate people become bunny boilers.
RedDevil66 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 First, why her looks are important enough to mention says a lot of about the people mentioning it. I'm sure you're all models! Second, she is sick and he is sick. They both need lots of help! I hope his wife takes everything he has
tami-chan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 First, why her looks are important enough to mention says a lot of about the people mentioning it. I'm sure you're all models! Second, she is sick and he is sick. They both need lots of help! I hope his wife takes everything he has Well, we can all pretend the "looks" are not important. Truth is, she is ugly and fat and he took advantage of her because he thought she was an easy lay/prey. Now he is paying for it. He is a loser. And if the wife takes him to cleaners, he totally deserves it.
RedDevil66 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Well, we can all pretend the "looks" are not important. Truth is, she is ugly and fat and he took advantage of her because he thought she was an easy lay/prey. Now he is paying for it. He is a loser. And if the wife takes him to cleaners, he totally deserves it. Well for me, ugly is on the inside, live like you were blind and your the judgement of others lessens, is my philosophy! Even if she was drop dead beautiful, it's not even relevent to this story
JumpinJimmy Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Well for me, ugly is on the inside, live like you were blind and your the judgement of others lessens, is my philosophy! Even if she was drop dead beautiful, it's not even relevent to this story Yes, it is incredibly relevent. You can live in fantasy la la land where everyone is judged by who they are inside, the rest of us will stay out here in reality and make comments about his taste. Tami chan said it best, and that is why it IS relevent. Lesson for all MMs thinking of having an affair: You want to make sure your prospective OW is gorgeous, smart, financially independent. You do not want anybody desperate. Desperate people become bunny boilers RD66, I can tell by your post that you are a woman, nothing wrong with that mind you, but you can be assured that men think much differently than you. This is just further proof that 99% of the men are in affairs for the sex/pursuit and women are in it for the emotional end.
GPFan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Well, there are degrees of ugliness. I thought they had mixed up photos when I first saw the one of him and her. It was clearly (to my sight) a man and I wondered how they could make such an egregious mistake on what promises to be a very big story for some time to come. Imagine my surprise (and a bit of horror) to realise that was indeed a woman and not only A woman but THE woman to end his career, marriage and life as he knows it. Truth is so very often stranger than fiction. The truth is he thought he could get over on her because of her disadvantages but he is learning up-close-and-personal that ugly is as ugly does. He deserves this.
GPFan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Lesson for all MMs thinking of having an affair: You want to make sure your prospective OW is gorgeous, smart, financially independent. You do not want anybody desperate. Desperate people become bunny boilers. Agreed, had he chosen someone who was closer to a peer he wouldn't be in this mess. Problem is his peers know what he gets up to and probably wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole!
bentnotbroken Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Agreed, had he chosen someone who was closer to a peer he wouldn't be in this mess. Problem is his peers know what he gets up to and probably wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole! Had he chosen to be faithful or divorce, he wouldn't be in this mess. He shouldn't be choosing someone to screw outside of his marriage period. His family is suffering because he wasn't mature enough to keep his penis in his pants.
bentnotbroken Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Well for me, ugly is on the inside, live like you were blind and your the judgement of others lessens, is my philosophy! Even if she was drop dead beautiful, it's not even relevent to this story Totally agree. Her appearance has little to do with the standards of humanity they both showed. She is so over the edge contacting his son and using him. It brings back so many angry feelings about my situation. KIDS should not have to deal with this crap!
GPFan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Had he chosen to be faithful or divorce, he wouldn't be in this mess. He shouldn't be choosing someone to screw outside of his marriage period. His family is suffering because he wasn't mature enough to keep his penis in his pants. Hi BNB, Yes that's a given except in this situation where he has proven to be a serial cheater. He has a problem that can't simply be willed away, it would have to be acknowledged and treated in therapy.
GPFan Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Totally agree. Her appearance has little to do with the standards of humanity they both showed. She is so over the edge contacting his son and using him. It brings back so many angry feelings about my situation. KIDS should not have to deal with this crap! I don't think she is any better off mentally than he is, they are two very broken people. It doesn't make what she did OK though and his wife has every right to pursue any and all legal means of keeping herself and their sons safe.
RedDevil66 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Yes, it is incredibly relevent. You can live in fantasy la la land where everyone is judged by who they are inside, the rest of us will stay out here in reality and make comments about his taste. Tami chan said it best, and that is why it IS relevent. RD66, I can tell by your post that you are a woman, nothing wrong with that mind you, but you can be assured that men think much differently than you. This is just further proof that 99% of the men are in affairs for the sex/pursuit and women are in it for the emotional end. How is this women not being physically attractive have anything to do with this story?! I live in reality, believe me! You can tell I'm a woman? You mean my avi didn't give it away?! ugh!
RedDevil66 Posted October 24, 2009 Posted October 24, 2009 Agreed, had he chosen someone who was closer to a peer he wouldn't be in this mess. Problem is his peers know what he gets up to and probably wouldn't touch him with a ten-foot pole! wow, this is so past comprehension! Ok, so women in his "peer" group (Whatever that means) cannot be crazy a&&, cheating, stalker nut-jobs?! Trust me, there are "beautiful" rich crazy women everywhere! man oh man oh man!
Author Impudent Oyster Posted October 24, 2009 Author Posted October 24, 2009 First, why her looks are important enough to mention says a lot of about the people mentioning it. I'm sure you're all models! Second, she is sick and he is sick. They both need lots of help! I hope his wife takes everything he has He is a good looking minor celebrity. You have to admit that it is beyond bizarre that he would have to scrape that far down in the barrel to find someone to screw around with. So many opportunistic OW, surely he didn't need to sink to such depths? At any rate, the comments alone that I HOPE he's reading should make it embarrassing for him to leave the house. Good.
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