My girl friend of 3 mounth kissed another guy last night

[natta110]

me and my girl friend have been together for 3 nearly 4 months now we had an Amazing summer together Pretty much spent every day together i can say we both love each other very much she is now going to uni and im in college there is a bit of a distance between us in distance but it only takes me an hour on my motorbike to see her so im dint think there is a problem there .

my girlfriend has a trust problem in her self she says that i shouldn't trust her she told me she liked one of her mates from a flat near by i do trust her with all my heart lately she seems to have changed she still love me and all but its just different .

last night me and my girl friend went to her friends Flat party the one she told me she liked.i had a few to drink and she had had too many she got tired and we decided to go back to her room so we did but she didn't get chance to say bye to her friend only lives across the Court yard so she was like im just guna say good night at this point she was half out the door and we where talking , i could tell that something was wrong any way i thought no its not going to happen i should trust her and i was quite mad at myself for that but she didn't come back for 2 hours after the hour had gone i rang her to see if she was coming back soon she said yes waited another hour she eventually came back we got into bed and just didn't sleep she could tell i was up set she kept saying sorry.

eventually she told me after a few more hours that the two hours she was away she was with her friend they where making out. i don't know what to do i love her so much but i don't know what to do i feel sad and angry i just wuna go over to the other side of the court yard and kick the S*** of him because he touched her and stuff but i won't cause she said it wasn't his fault but he knew that i was going out with her.

shes on a trip away atm and im left here to think about whats happened .we talked this morning she said sorry to me but we didn't get much time to Speak cause she had to go on the trip she will be back tonight . i just don't know what to do? or say ? just really need some advice

[lostsunsets]

She did more then kiss this guy. Don't be a doormat. You know what happened. First off you should have gone over there. Why didn't you? She already admitted that she liked him and could not be TRUSTED. Sheesh. You had the perfect reason. "You said you could not be trusted".

[natta110]

i know she didnt do anything more

[mark982]

and how do you know that? plus she disrespected you by playing game on you.

[carhill]

just really need some advice

 

Enjoy the bloom of youth and revel in the multitudes of young members of the opposite gender around you. That's what she's doing. Accept that. At your age, 3 months is a long time for a relationship.

[Dexter Morgan]

dude, dump this tart immediately. she is fickle and can't be trusted.

 

and if you want to beat the s##t out of this other guy, then what is her fitting punishment? because she is the one that is more directly disrespecting you and spitting in your face.

 

I wouldn't say any punishment should be imposed. just dump her, she isn't worth a good man's time. let the players use her and abuse her.

[Bobby2010]

i know she didnt do anything more

 

You seriously believe that?

 

When a cheater admits to something, they will disclose something minor (A Kiss) which is still bad, but usually far from what really went on.

 

And she was gone 3 hours? Even if she wasn't f***ing him, she knew you weren't there and totally disrespected you by staying that long.

 

Consider yourself lucky you've only been together a short time.

 

Drop her. Please.

[Bryanp]

Why would you be with someone who told you to your face that you could not trust her? She spends 2 to 3 hours making out with some guy while you are next door. What is wrong with this picture. You are a complete if you stay with her. She deliberately humiliated and disresected you to the max. Why would you accept something like this? Surely you deserve better than this.

[seibert253]

Cheaters ALWAYS minimalize. She just "made out" FOR 2 OR 3 HOURS. Come on, you didn't just fall off the bus, Ray Charles can see what happened here.

 

She banged the other dude, while you were waiting for her at her flat. How disrespectful is that?

 

Do as you wish, but if I were you, when she got back from her trip I would be GOA, (gone on arrival), never to be heard from again.

 

You're young dude. There are plenty of other chicks out there who will treat you with the respect and love you deserve. This one will not.

 

Peace,

[boldjack]

OP are you really that naive? She was with him, for almost 3 hours. Sorry but you are being played. Dump her , now, and save yourself future heartache. Be wise.

[FryFish]

Dude.... be gone when she gets home...

[Bryanp]

I guess that just kissed and talked about global warming for 3 hours while you waited for her. This is a person who told you upfront you could not trust her. I am sorry but you are in big time denial.

[TheLoneSock]

She is no longer your girlfriend man lol. As carhill said, enjoy the multitude of girls around you. 3 months isn't that hard to forget, and neither is she.