bbqt90 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 ok. so let me just say that im a girl feeling something for my bestfriend(girl) the story: i meet my bestfriend back in high school. we were just class mates and notting more. we started to hang out more n gettin to knoe esch other more. we eventually became bestfriends. we are very close. we been through a lot. at first i thought what i felt for her was just because of everything shes done for me. but it all started to happen on her birthday. we went out and she pulled me more to her side and sed to kiss her. but i knew she was playin until i gave her a top kiss. and she told me i didnt knw how to kiss so i went farther and gave her a really big kiss. at that momment something changed. after that nottin happened we just didnt mention nottin to each other. but all i wanted to do was kiss her to figure out what was dat feeling. so one day we kissed again and again n we made it a habitt. now the problem is that shes straight and i also concidered my self as a straight girl. this is the first time i felt this way for a girl. i always get jealous when she talks about boys and i just want to b the whole time with her. i even buy her stuff. but idk what she feels. she kiss me back but i dont really knoe what shes feelin. and ive asked her b4 and she tld me she never thought about feelin aomethin for me. its killin me bc we always callin eachoda names lik booboo baby. n stuff lik that. and i reallly want to knoe if she does feel something for me or if shes just hidin it or wat. ive never been in diz situation i need helpp HELP!!
ADF Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 Straight people often have same-sex experiences at some point in their lives. Finding one girl in a million attractive doesn't neccessarily mean you're bi or gay or anything like that. But if you are, you are. There's not much you can do about it. Just treat this like you would any other relationship. Maybe it will go somewhere, maybe not. But don't be ashamed of what is perfectly normal human behavior.
drillman Posted October 27, 2009 Posted October 27, 2009 It sounds like you are emotionaly attached, but its not sexual unless you fantasize about getting it on ALL the time with her. A little tingle once in a while doesn't really count for much, people can find people attractive no matter the gender. If you are feeling fragile and vulnerable about this attachment to your friend, i wouldnt take it further unless she wants to otherwise you might scare her off permanently. Nothing ruins a good friendship faster than introducing weirdness that neither can get past, but you can always ask if shes open to experimenting, depends on how open-minded she is.
RogueAngel19 Posted October 28, 2009 Posted October 28, 2009 I doubt your bi or anything like that but we all have our experiences. I think because you to are so close to your best friend you have a more intimate relationship. Experimenting is fine to find out if you are that way or not but i don't think experimenting with your best friend is a good idea unless she's willing to do it and understands that this could really change things between you. I think unless she says she wants to try and see you like that and maybe date that you should not get involved because being best friends is one thing but being girlfriends is a whole other story. Even if its just dating some people are great friends but not so great significant others so think about it.
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