dianna Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Background :(other posts) 2 and a half years relationship,he left me almost 4 months ago , we are in the same class in college , ex always pops up when im doing ok So, i've found out from a mutual friend that a month after our breakup my ex was dating a girl . My friend told me that it was nothing serious .Of course I was in shock.And I cried for the last time ( 2 weeks ago ) . In the meantime (of course seeing him at college is hard ) I've found a new guy who is totally different from my bf.And I was happy..but then..it hit me.I DON'T WANT a new relationship ...and this new guy is kind of what I wanted my bf to be when we were still togheter ( my bf was the "wanna be a rockstar guy" and this guy is the romantic type..reads a lot..knows a lot..traveled..etc etc prince charming type ..) But what the **** ..I don't want him. Because I am afraid im going to hurt him ...because I feel he is the rebound relationship and he deserves better than a crazy Dianna Im seriously angry ..Im in the " I hate my ex" phase because of that .He left me shattered, and now im terrified of a new relationship. And my ex pops up every day since he found out about this new guy..he started TALKING to me and I was " wow.." ..he stares like a moron at classes and basicaly started to drink ..a lot. I don't want my ex back ..and I can't believe Im saying this. But What to do..should I give it a go(with the new guy)? Or should I kick my bf in the nuts?
GrayClouds Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Background :(other posts) What to do..should I give it a go(with the new guy)? Or should I kick my bf in the nuts? No on either. While the EX deserve the kick it will only achieve on or two undesirable results: Stroke his ego because it show you still care about him or turn him on becouse he is into pain. Let the new guy go because your not completely over the break up and that is not fair to him. I suspect if he is truly into you then he does not want to be rebound guy and if he does not care about being rebound guy he is not really into you but more interested getting into your pants. Either way someone is going to get hurt. Spend some time working on yourself, you don't need to rush your crushes.
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