salem mark Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I drafted my preemptive breakup letter , any thoughts, suggestions? M- I agree we need a break, and I'm OK with it. I'm not sure what happened to you, I suspect maybe you met someone, or not, i don't know, You haven't been the same since Saturday. We discussed my issues that concerned you Sunday and I agreed to work on them and hoped we could continue a journey which I thought, was pretty amazing. And then nothing, You wouldn't even respond to a couple emails? This has been a painful week for me. You knew I was torn up about us this weekend and I got nothing, no reassurances, love, anything I'm very in much in love with you and that will never change but It sounds like your feelings have. Your definition of loving someone forever is very short apparently. Lately I felt like a doormat, which is something you wipe your feet on , not love and respect. I patiently respected, cared, and loved you the best I could. I unconditionally love you and would have done anything to make us work. As far as me, everything had a condition tied to it, which isn't real love. Maybe you really don't even know what that means or how to be committed to someone. I was willing to guide you but not under these conditions. I should of know better getting involved with you again, given your history but I gambled, took a chance and lost. You told me to bring it on and I did because of a deep, unexplainable feeling I have for you and i cherish the past couple months we spent together, i was very happy. Maybe, down the road when you know what you want we can connect again, if not I hope you find happiness somehow, somewhere in the future. I'll miss you terribly, Mark
McGrupp Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 i wouldnt send it. you come off like a pussy. send something with balls. like nothing
Author salem mark Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 really, see im not sure if she wants to break up, she just went cold on me this past week, so im trying to keep the door ope n a little
McGrupp Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 well thats not going to open the door. believe me i was in your same situation. i sent a letter, she said it made her feel sad, and nothing else. stick to NC if she hasnt said its over yet.
GorillaTheater Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 really, see im not sure if she wants to break up, she just went cold on me this past week, so im trying to keep the door ope n a little You're not going to keep the door open by appearing needy and just a wee bit desparate. Keep it strong, that's your best shot.
McGrupp Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 read it: live by It: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/
honeypear Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 read it: live by It: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t84894/ Thanks I really needed to see this link. In hind sight its common sense. When this just happens to you..you are thinking with your heart. It's true you need to get back to the person you were before this break up. Take care;)
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