dt311unity Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I need some advice people- My ex fiance broke up with me back in april, I have posted a few posts about it on here if you want to try to get some more information about the situation. About a week ago we started to hang out a few times. She has been going to a group to get some help with dependency issues, which I can already tell a difference with her (good thing). We still have a great connection and I can tell the feelings are still there. My problem is that I have been dating another woman for around a month now. Nothing too serious, we usually see each other once or twice a week. I really do enjoy being with her though. She is nice, caring, pretty, fun, we are both laid back and not very emotional, and we have a lot of the same interests. Some of the things I don't like about her is her lack of motivation, she doesn't really have a career, still lives at home, and her family is not the greatest. I think the family and career is almost a deal breaer for me. But... I don't know what to do now with everything though. I still have feelings for my ex and my intentions when we hung out were to not get back with her, but we still have such a great connection with one another. She is smart, pretty, motivated, has a good career, and her family is great. I could picture myself with her again, I mean, we were engaged before we broke up. At the same time I am unsure about things with her because of our past. We do have some personality differences also that worry me a little too like: She is very emotional and is a little high strung, our interests and activities we enjoy are different. I am very laid back and not very emotional. I guess I just need some input on everything. I need to decide what I want to do so I can tell one or the other my intentions. Thanks
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