wife Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Ex just told me he is having a birthday party for my son and I am not allowed to attend because he does not want me to cause a scene (I have never caused a scene, EVER!) And because I can't get along with the girlfriend! So he is having a birthday party, inviting all the friends and people, and I am not allowed to come!!!
mark982 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 where's the party at? if it's a public plade,he can't do crap about it.
Ronni_W Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Ex just told me he is having a birthday party for my son and I am not allowed to attend Yep...that is part of the 'new normal' that comes with divorce -- kids get to have two birthday parties so that they can celebrate with "dad's side" and with "mom's side". It would be nice if you had been invited, of course. But it's not surprising that you're not. Might I suggest that you plan something fun/special to do when the party is scheduled, so that you can keep your own spirits up -- spa, interesting workshop, anything that your Self will enjoy.
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