jennpowers Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 :(Okay my name is Jennifer I have 2 children and Jeremy and I have been together for 4 months, he is 29 single married and had a nast divorce 2 years ago hasn't dated since. I have full custody of both my kids and when I moved in to this house Jeremy started staying the night well he previously lived with his parents. He said in the beginning that he loved kids and thinks he missed out on having his own, all this time he has stayed here everynight and slowly moved stuff in to my house clothes his tv and ps3 I asked him a month after he started staying here did he live here or not if he didnt' he couldnt stay the night it wasn't good for my kids to see. So he said let me think about it and he came back tomy house an hour later yes firm yes he wanted to live here. Okay so he has season tickets to college football he skipped out on the game this saturday cause he wanted to spend time with me. I asked him the other day if we were ok cause he has been real distant lately he assured me he was incredibly happy I was his fav gf and how much he loved me and so on. Ok the very next day he comes home and thinks he needs to move out so I got his bag out of the closet calmly adn he started crying he packed his bag but stayed the night, the next morning he came back adn took an hour and a half packing his stuff <shoulda taken 30 min> he kept sitting down crying and crying, I told him i wasn't gonna stop him if thats what he wanted to do but thats not what i wanted. He said hes confused in life and doesn't know what he wants. He is so sorry this is happening but he needs some time to think/ okay so i ask am i supposed to txt or call u or u want me not too he says no i want to talk to you still, and he still wants to hang out. All his friends say they have never seen him like this they don't know. I don't know what to do he is coming over here tonight to watch tv and I'm soo depressed I had to go stay at my moms last night so i didnt sleep alone. I don't know his friends say to sit around and wait for him to decide not to push him but idk how long this is going to take, I am having hard time coming to accpect this. I asked him to call me last night so i could say goodnight and he did then an hour later he txt me he was going to bed, I think he is scared of' commitment but we made it clear we weren't getting married and he said "if ya get knocked up ya do" so thats where he stands on kids. He left his dog here when he moved out asked me if he cld stay here a while and its not cause he has no where for him cause he breeds them they have 13. And he moved in with his friend at his sisters adn husbands house so i dunno what the heck to do so plzzz any males have this happen plz give me some insight or help in any way!!!!!!!
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