CaliGuy Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Rich probably Women arent biologically interested in men our age pretty boy Some are but you have to maintain your good looks and hot bod or they will lose interest.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Some are but you have to maintain your good looks and hot bod or they will lose interest. I never had any of that to begin with anyways so I guess Im lucky Women have turned the tables though In just my lifetime its disgusting it really is
boogieboy Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 On this topic, if older women who date younger men are "Cougars" then what do you call older men who date younger women? Daddies? Mid-Life-Crisis-ers?
burning 4 revenge Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Daddies? Mid-Life-Crisis-ers? We cant even date women our age because they all want guys in their twenties, so why doesnt that make them whores if its so bad when men do it?
CaliGuy Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 We cant even date women our age because they all want guys in their twenties Nah not in my case. I can have PLENTY of them I just don't want them because they are not interested in starting a family (they've been there, done that, got the t-shirt already). I don't have a problem finding younger women -- just not ones that know what they want -- which I already know is rare.
Author bac Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 We cant even date women our age because they all want guys in their twenties, so why doesnt that make them whores if its so bad when men do it? It is not bad. Many young girls want to date older guys. Go and date younger girls.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 It is not bad. Many young girls want to date older guys. Go and date younger girls. I dont want to date younger girls
jennifer4 Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 I was "seeing" a 24 yr old and I'm 37 : ) but we had sex only 2x. I broke it off finally realizing that we could never have a real relationship. He told me he wasn't ready for a real relationship but I thought we could have something more than just txting and occasional sex. Oh well,live and learn. I should have learned by now tho LOL
Author bac Posted October 22, 2009 Author Posted October 22, 2009 I dont want to date younger girls Why? Are you afraid to get hurt? In other words, are you afraid to have a crash on girls and suffer because of that? I had it with a young guy. And it sucks a lot.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Why? Are you afraid to get hurt? In other words, are you afraid to have a crash on girls and suffer because of that? I had it with a young guy. And it sucks a lot. No Id just rather be with someone from my own time thats all I dont get this cold utilitarian reasoning where middle aged people should date younger people because its to their advantage But really I think Im ok alone for now
Lizzie60 Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 Younger men who hit on older women.. only wants sex.. 9/10 times. If you accept to see them.. then you accept (unwritten rule) to have sex with them... For some.. they liked the experience... they crave older women for the sexual experience and to have decent conversations about just anything. For others, it's curiosity.. they heard that older women were hot in bed.. and they want to try it.. If you're all for sex.. I say GO for it.. but in my experience, (and I have mostly experiences with younger men, my choice) they are fun to be with... they keep you young.. but they aren't necessarily the best in the sack... (you can always teach them)...
donnamaybe Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 but they aren't necessarily the best in the sack... (you can always teach them)... See, THAT would be the fun part.
tkgirl Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 shygirl u have a pug ? me too me three! pugs rock! sorry.... off topic....
tkgirl Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Younger men who hit on older women.. only wants sex.. 9/10 times. If you accept to see them.. then you accept (unwritten rule) to have sex with them... For some.. they liked the experience... they crave older women for the sexual experience and to have decent conversations about just anything. For others, it's curiosity.. they heard that older women were hot in bed.. and they want to try it.. If you're all for sex.. I say GO for it.. but in my experience, (and I have mostly experiences with younger men, my choice) they are fun to be with... they keep you young.. but they aren't necessarily the best in the sack... (you can always teach them)... I was just hit on by a MUCH younger guy last weekend... like half my age! and while I was very flattered.. and a little tempted.. there was no way! and it's really not so much the number thing, but the level of maturity.. I'm more turned on by guys I can have an intelligent conversation with.. but that's just me.
Johnny_Rocket Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 I dont want to date younger girls Ditto... I cannot understand women my own age. I need someone at least 3-5 years older to get someone who I can stand being in a room with. And as far as flaking out, it's more of a character "lack of" problem than an age problem. It just happens that my generation is lacking in most of the more beneficial social traits than the generations that have preceded us.
alclarkey Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 ****, I get along best with women who are about 10 yrs older than me. I have an unnatural maturity for a guy my age.
BlueHarvest Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 LOL. I'm getting hot from just reading this thread....
Patrice Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Am I a Cougar? I am 50 and have a 41 year old chasing me ... we just click and haven't been together sexually - although, I'm sensing it's getting closer as he texted me a picture of himself semi-nude this am before I left for work ... wanted me to take the day off and spend it with him. What exactly defines a Cougar??
Lizzie60 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 I was just hit on by a MUCH younger guy last weekend... like half my age! and while I was very flattered.. and a little tempted.. there was no way! and it's really not so much the number thing, but the level of maturity.. I'm more turned on by guys I can have an intelligent conversation with.. but that's just me. Well.. I am seeing a young guy right now.. he's 26... I'm 57... he's amazingly intelligent.. own his company.. and is getting quite successful.. I'm sooo freaken proud of him... we have been seeing each other for about 4-5 years now ... he's one of the smartest guy ... he reminds me sooo much of my last ex.. young, intelligent, successful businessman even at a very young age.. He always say that he adores me... we are very comfortable together.. I don't feel the age gap that much.. I've seen 20 yr old guys who were just AS mature as some 40s...
Lizzie60 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Am I a Cougar? I am 50 and have a 41 year old chasing me ... we just click and haven't been together sexually - although, I'm sensing it's getting closer as he texted me a picture of himself semi-nude this am before I left for work ... wanted me to take the day off and spend it with him. What exactly defines a Cougar?? Nope.. you only have 9 years difference.. a cougar is an older female with a much younger guy... 9 years is nothing.. I've seen, on a cougar site,.. men in their 50s looking for a Cougar..(and quite a few too)... obviously they have no idea what a cougar is...
Patrice Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 WEll, that's strange ... they don't get the definition?? Like me???
Author bac Posted October 23, 2009 Author Posted October 23, 2009 Well.. I am seeing a young guy right now..... Lizzie, how do you deal with jealousy issue? What your way of thinking to avoid that ? I had the problem with a young guy. And, it was so painful that decided to break up with the guy.
CaliGuy Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Well.. I am seeing a young guy right now.. he's 26... I'm 57... he's amazingly intelligent.. own his company.. and is getting quite successful.. I'm sooo freaken proud of him... we have been seeing each other for about 4-5 years now ... he's one of the smartest guy ... he reminds me sooo much of my last ex.. young, intelligent, successful businessman even at a very young age.. He always say that he adores me... we are very comfortable together.. I don't feel the age gap that much.. Then that's all that matters. I say go for it, Lizzie. I've seen 20 yr old guys who were just AS mature as some 40s... See, when I say this about women everyone shakes their head at me. It's possible just not an every day thing. And I think the same goes for men as well.
Lizzie60 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Then that's all that matters. I say go for it, Lizzie. See, when I say this about women everyone shakes their head at me. It's possible just not an every day thing. And I think the same goes for men as well. Yes.. there are 'old souls' in both gender..
Lizzie60 Posted October 23, 2009 Posted October 23, 2009 Lizzie, how do you deal with jealousy issue? What your way of thinking to avoid that ? I had the problem with a young guy. And, it was so painful that decided to break up with the guy. Nahh.. I never get attached to them.. I know it won't last.. in this case, he's my young MM..
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