rebe84 Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 So here is my story. I had a great relationship with my ex and we were together for a year, then I brokeup with him. Then we couldn't be friends after the breakup cause all he would do is try to hurt, confuse me and try to make me jealous. After a break of NC, for a long time I would say about 6 months or so, I had moved on with another guy. After that didn't work out, he came to my rescue and in the end we had decided to get back together. I'm from OR and him, NH. I knew he would always eventually go back and he did after 4 months of getting back together. When he left I was so hurt. He cried for weeks pleading with me not breakup with him and convincing me that a long distance would work. As soon as he moved there, he changed. He was always partying with the boys or just so busy that I would hardly get to hear from him which would cause a lot of our problems. He tried to breakup with me a few times but I had always talked him out of it, saying we came this far we don't have to give up because we love each other. So on a much needed break on both ends, he decides to end it in an email. I was so crushed. He wanted me to talk on the phone with him about this after the email, so I did. That was the last time I ever heard from him. When we had talked on the phone about the breakup, I would ask him questions hoping of some type of closure. He would always tell me I don't know. He kept saying he was so sorry a million times and then cried on the phone. When I asked him if he wanted to be friends or have me in his life, his reply was still I don't know. He also had mention that he would call me every other week or email me once a week but I don't know if that will happen or if he said that to subside the blow. He deleted all of my facebook comments but leaves my pictures up, and the his main picture that I took of him when he was filled with inlove happiness with me but still hasn't deleted me off his facebook. I don't get it or why this had to happen, or why he wouldn't let me end it before hand. I haven't contacted him at all, no phone calls..no texts..nothing. But I keep wondering if he will ever talk to me again because he told me before he left he wanted a life with me and to marry me someday. P.S. The day he broke it off with me was the day I sent a love package I created for him. Never thanked me. What do I do? And how do I get over this hurt? I lost my best friend and lover, I feel so completely lost without him. Does NC really work?
Thebob Posted October 22, 2009 Posted October 22, 2009 you know what you have to do. Hes moved on and you need to as well. You just have that false sense of hope that he will come flying back and be with you. You need to NC and move on and let him be the one to contact you in the future. Don't rely on NC for him to come flying back as well. Move on and don't be surprised if he doesn't call back. Thebob
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